we had sex about four times in one day and the last time we didn't use protection. I also performed oral unprotected. now i think iam pregnant or worst i think i may have an std was I STUPID!
2006-07-04 08:06:55 · 26 answers · asked by Korlea W 1 in Health ➔ Other - Health
I think you answered your own question... Go get checked out and put your mind at rest.
2006-07-04 08:10:54 · answer #1 · answered by Chrissie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, not using protection was about the dumbest thing that you could have done. But you know that so I wont prolong the pain any longer. There is a chance that you could be pregnant. Are you on birth control? If not, has this occurance been within the last 72 hours? If so, go to the doctor now and have him give you the 72 hour pill. It is emergency birth control that can have time to act before you do get pregnant. If not, then go get a pregnancy test. If it comes up negative, wait a few more weeks and then test again. Just to be on the safe side, have your doctor test you to make sure.
As far as the STD goes, what is it you think that you have? If you have chlamydia, syphillys or gonorrhea, those will generally show up within a week but it can take up to a month to show symptoms. HPV, herpes, and HIV all take as little as 2 months and up to years to surface. HIV has been known to go up to 20 years before surfacing, herpes and HPV 12 years. You can have it and spread it and not know it. This happens from a process called viral shedding.
Go to the doctor or you local health department or Planned Parenthood and go get tested for STDs. HPV, herpes and HIV are not curable but they are controllable. It is important to know what you have, if you have anything, so that you can effectively deal with it Get tested now and keep getting tested every six months.
The most important advice that I can give you now is:
use protections EVERY PARTNER, EVERY TIME
I hope that things work out for the best for you.
2006-07-04 08:29:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, unfortuantely there is a possiblity you could be preganant. Not from the oral sex unprotected, but from the going inside you deal. Chances are slightly higher with the nonprotection. In regards to STD. Do you think that your bf has been sleeping around? Or has slept around? You can always go for a test to see if you have an STD. may not be a bad idea.
2006-07-04 08:11:35 · answer #3 · answered by Mae V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, that is quite stupid. Thank goodness you realize the error of your ways, some girls don't.
But anyway, if you have signs or symptoms of pregnancy, you should definitely tell your boyfriend as well as your parents. I know it will be difficult, but trust me, it will be a lot better for you if you are in fact pregnant so you can get proper medical care. Of course you should also be tested for STD's even if you aren't pregnant, and so should your boyfriend. I know some places will give them for $10 and you don't need parental consent. However, involving your parents in this seems like the most mature thing you could do. If everything works out in your favor, and you aren't pregnant nor do you have any STD's, I'd suggest you start taking birth control as an added precaution, on top of using condoms. Good luck.
2006-07-04 08:15:56 · answer #4 · answered by Tranquility 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope everything works out for you. If I was you I would of made sure I used protection. Being pregnant is the better of the two. I wouldn't want an std. I hate to say it, but maybe you learned a lesson, and if you're not pg and don't have an std maybe you learned from the scare you just went through.
2006-07-04 08:12:42 · answer #5 · answered by piperhound 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Careless, yes, but not necessarily "stupid". Most STDS go undetected in the female for a long period of time; pregnancy symptoms show up fairly quickly. Get tested for both at your local family planning facility to find out what exactly is going on before you panic.
Disregard Brina's answer ... she's pregnant.
2006-07-04 08:11:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now you have learned a lesson, could be a life changing lesson, but a lesson. I would go to the doctor and get checked out for std's if you think you may have contracted one. Otherwise you will just have to wait and take a pregnancy test.
2006-07-04 08:11:55 · answer #7 · answered by cherrypie p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, and when was this?
There really is a chance of you becoming pregnant. If it was in the last two days, you might consider to go for a "pill after". It should be taken within 72 hours after having sex, latest.
Do something before you really have to make difficult choices that change your life!!!!!
2006-07-04 08:14:49 · answer #8 · answered by swissnick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you were. Get a pregnancy test. If you aren't responsible enough to use protection, you aren't ready to be having sex. I hope you are not pregnant because that would totally change your life.
2006-07-04 08:11:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that probably wasn't the best thing to do. if u think your pregnant go get a take home kit. if u think u have an std go to ur doctor or if you want it confidential planned parenthood
2006-07-04 08:11:00 · answer #10 · answered by ilessthanthreeyou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think you may have gotten std, better get checked a.s.a.p.
That's scary. Does he sleep around a whole lot ?? Stop having oral
sex, you never know where it's been.
2006-07-04 08:59:30 · answer #11 · answered by lorena 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋