Everytime my boyfriend and i have sex i can only last like 20 mins before it hurts to much that we HAVE to stop. Is this normal? Like i want to be with him like all the time probably more than he wants to be with me.. Is there anything i can do???
2006-07-04 07:42:42 · 10 answers · asked by lindsay G 1 in Health ➔ Other - Health
let's see, how old are you?
2006-07-04 07:47:06 · answer #1 · answered by juicyfruitishandsome 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are sensitive down there. That would be normal if it was the first time. But if you are in a pain all the time when you're having sex with your boyfriend, you might think about seeing an OBGYN. Have an exam performed. Hopefully that will give you the answer to why it's painful for you having sex with your boyfriend.
2006-07-04 14:51:39 · answer #2 · answered by luckygirl69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, that is a problem. Let's explore some things that might be going wrong ...
#1: Are you getting wet enough? If there's not enough lubrication, your boyfriend's penis is going to feel like sandpaper on the walls of your vagina. Try using some KY. Also, try starting out slow ... don't let him beat it up until you see how it feels.
#2: Are you using protection, and how sexually experience are the both of you? Several STD's, including chlamydia and gonorrhea can infect your cervix and make sex very unpleasant. Also, your average everyday vaginal problems, such as yeast infections and bacterial vaginosis, can make sex painful.
#3: Have you talked to your doctor? There are several medical conditions that can make sex painful, such as endometriosis and cervical cancer.
If adding a little lubrication and slowing things down a bit don't help, definitely see your doctor!!!
2006-07-04 14:50:43 · answer #3 · answered by ♦Hollywood's Finest♦ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps, after your check up with the OBGYN to rule out any diseases, he may be playing the game of jack-rabbit sex. (Too fast, too hard). Teach him how to have sex. Also, if you are too needy most men will walk away. Back off and he will want to be with you more. Have a great day.
2006-07-04 15:02:51 · answer #4 · answered by firestarter 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first get checked by a gyn dr and some times it can hurt from to much force and to make sure you dont have an infestion inside so get yourself checked out.
2006-07-04 14:48:42 · answer #5 · answered by LENORE P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to an obgyn and talk to her maybe if your dry try some ky but if it hurts maybe you should be on top to controlthe dept he go's and where it hits good luck
2006-07-04 14:48:27 · answer #6 · answered by brina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex should not hurt...sounds like you REALLY need to see yer doctor
2006-07-04 14:47:54 · answer #7 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it hurts that means your body is telling you that there is something wrong
go to a gynocologist
2006-07-04 14:46:14 · answer #8 · answered by kathy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your dr. bout it you might have some thing wrong , but im not a dr. so ask her or him
2006-07-04 14:47:17 · answer #9 · answered by biglove1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have something
2006-07-04 14:47:37 · answer #10 · answered by helo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋