See, every guy I've ever dated has either cheated on me, lied to me, or hurt me. I've never had a decent boyfriend. And every time I try, the next one always turns out worse. But yet- I'm afraid. It's that time in highschool that everyone hooks up and starts having ''relations'' in life. I've fallen in love with a man though and I am certain he loves me. We haven't told each other because it would be extremely embarassing. And he has had relationship problems too as well. We seem so perfect together. But, last semester, after we changed classes, he didn't see me as much. Even though he tried to move on, everytime he looked in my eyes he seemed to want to keep looking. So, it's been two months since I've seen him and six months since I've really talked with him. Should I move on- or should I still keep loving him? Help!!!!
2006-07-04 07:41:06 · 8 answers · asked by VandyViolin09 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if u really love him, then wait. just tell him how you feel. since you both hav been hurt, it is going to be obvious that you guys won't lie or cheat on you because youi kno how it feels. Try to meet up somewhere and just talk. he still likes you. but don't give up. dating is just experimenting until u find the perfect one. you still hav time, dont wrry. everyone has their differnet pace. but tell him how u feel, if hes moved on then u can too. knowing that u got that out of the way. if we still likes u, then u guys hav a possiblilty of going out.
2006-07-04 07:52:23 · answer #1 · answered by Fallen Angel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep your love for him on hold, but don't completely drop him off your list. Meanwhile, look in different places than before for a new man . The reason you might be making the same mistake is because you go back to the same location to look for more of the same guy. Where you usually see a man having fun is where he will continue to go for more fun. The local bars are full of guys that love to drink and have one-night stands with women who get drunk and can't remember who or what of the night before. When you find your friend, sit down and have a heart to heart with him. Communication is always the best and only way to get to the root of any situation, or problem. Most men fear rejection, so he is being reluctant for that reason. Tell him exactly what your feelings are for him, what you expect from a relationship with him, but don't give him an ultimatum. Allow him time to absorb the information and time to think it through. I myself do not like mind games, like, "Whats bothering you sweetheart? It's nothing, or, Don't you know?" Be honest, sincere and loyal to him, and he will do the same for you. Don't settle for anything less. If he can't treat you with love and kindness, then you don't want a man like that ruining your life. Pray, go to church, let God guide you to find the right man for you.
2006-07-04 08:04:12 · answer #2 · answered by the sealer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
!Take the time out for yourself,
Pamper yourself and do things that make you happy, go places with your friends, read a really good book, do some writing and I am sure you will meet some new people(guys)
If he wants you really he knows where to find you don't wait on him to respond, do life.
when the time is right you will have that special someone in your life, just don't give up on love it's out there.
But go, go on with things that make you smile, laugh and excited!
Girl you're gonna be just fine!
2006-07-04 07:54:37 · answer #3 · answered by Honey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh darling do no longer worry. i grow to be ineffective set on a organic start too, yet my toddler's head grow to be interior the incorrect place. i could had a while in labour in a effective birthing unit till they blue-lighted me for the duration of city to the scientific institution. luckily a chum had already informed me of her journey, so i grow to be arranged for the substitute of surroundings and the stark, sterile environment. i grow to be maximum scared approximately having an epidural, yet to be straight forward it particularly would not harm that plenty in any respect. They then shave the section if choose be, and verify it fairly is sparkling (i think of they use iodine). that's an extremely unusual sensation once you're completely numbed, and additionally you are able to desire to sense slightly faraway from the finished element, surprisingly much like an out of physique experiance. you will then be moved to the theatre, that's extremely bright. If the workers at your scientific institution are a reliable because of the fact those at mine they are going to make the attempt to place you comfortable, and be as gentle hearted as achieveable. The technique would not take long in any respect, perchance 20 minutes(?) Afterwards you're gonna be sore- it grow to be surprisingly painful getting up and mendacity down in mattress. when I wasn't getting whizzed around in a wheel chair at warp speed, (adult men sooo can no longer rigidity!) walking grow to be decreased to shuffling. (coughing and giggling additionally harm) you should take it trouble-free till now each thing, yet on an identical time get shifting once you are able to, if it particularly is sensible. once you get homestead along with your effective parcel verify there is somebody to do some issues for you- making a meal or besides the fact that, besides the fact that if meaning enlisting the help of your midwife or HV. The scaring does flow down yet takes time. i'm employing Bio-Oil and that i think of it fairly is assisting. I did stay numbed in that section for around 10 weeks. The scare is low adequate to injury out with donning a bikini (if I ever lose any weight!lol) attempt to no longer be too unhappy approximately no longer having a organic start; in spite of the undeniable fact that I do kinda sense I ignored out on some thing, i comprehend i've got have been given a perfect toddler to make up for that. the better of success to you hon!
2016-12-14 04:15:27 · answer #4 · answered by clemens 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lust is at first sight...love is at first stare...sit him down be a woman and tell him how you feel before some else comes along and snaps him up or worse you get snapped up by the wrong guy!
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2006-07-04 07:48:21 · answer #5 · answered by hiyuken_music 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ofcourse u should still be dating
don`t wait there go 4 it :DD
2006-07-04 07:47:49 · answer #6 · answered by [4sins]ScoobySergiu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keep waiting, or keep looking
2006-07-04 07:45:42 · answer #7 · answered by sesso*E 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no go to aa
2006-07-04 07:44:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋