My son says I come across as "unapproachable". I think it's because I'm weighing in @ 200lbs. (When I use to weigh 107...) Why don't 40something yr. old men approach women - in general - and ask them on dates. And, HOW can I seriously get a guy to ask me out? All sincere answers welcome and helpful. (Thank you in advance for your honesty!)
2006-07-04 07:18:46 · 11 answers · asked by Kitten2 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Join a gym and get your self confidence up, and ask out a man.
2006-07-04 07:22:13 · answer #1 · answered by ndmac 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
well since you have a weight problem but guy in there 40 have serious weight problem to and most of them are married to there are guy out there that you would be very happy with and guy would be very happy with you but you need to get out of the house and out in the community but you haven't done that because you sit around the house all of the time watching TV so if you want a change in your life get off of your *** and make a change in your life for the better.get your hair done put some make up on but not to much put on some jean and go to the mall
walk around there a lot of single guy there.but stay out of the bars that not a good place to find a nice guy go to wine tasting
current event in your area just get out and do thing then before you know it some one well come your way.just when you least expect it to happen he well appear.
2006-07-04 07:32:52 · answer #2 · answered by little ace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are men out there who prefer bigger women. You just have to look for them!
Maybe you should ask you son if that's really what he meant. He might have been talking about something personality wise.
2006-07-04 07:26:38 · answer #3 · answered by blueskies7890 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
us 40's guys are a little quieter than we use to be but we know how to treat a lady i think its more of a respect thing were smart enough now to know to try and get to know the person first i dont think weight is the issue..its the heart that counts
2006-07-04 07:32:12 · answer #4 · answered by . 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not about your weight or anything. Men are just dumb and dont know how to act. If I were you I wouldnt stress myself over it. Eventuially some one will come along that is right for you
2006-07-04 07:28:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK become approachable. It's all about ATTITUDE! Project a sexy attitude and guys will come crawling.
Then start on an exercise program.
2006-07-04 07:23:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to have a confident appeal about you i am 40 and it is all about the way people present themselves and not about the weight. a loving person get a lot farther than a mean person
2006-07-04 07:42:09 · answer #7 · answered by martinj5055 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to lose weight. Why would a guy ask out a 200 lb fat-as$ like you when they can ask out a super hot 135 lb brunette with a great butt and titties?
2006-07-04 07:23:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I am on the up and up. I'm 35 m and I live in California. Wanna chat?
2006-07-04 07:33:34 · answer #9 · answered by bigben 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I AM CERTAIN IF YOU CAN DROP THE WEIGHT, THE MEN WILL FLOCK. GUARANTEED!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-04 07:24:10 · answer #10 · answered by hey101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋