2006-07-04 06:45:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You hit the nail on the head....ego! Your sex drive has nothing to do with the situation...but you are in constant need of ego stroking given by new people in bed. The only way to 'overcome' this syndrome is to get a different opinion of yourself. If your only attribute is your ability to go to bed with different women, you are aiming very low on the scale. ANYONE can find a bed partner, it is as easy as drinking a glass of water....and it certainly is not much of an accomplishment. Try an experiment: go to the local hangout/bar and watch others at work. You will find men going from woman to woman until they "get lucky." (Luck has nothing to do with it...persistence does.) You will see that ANYONE who sets their mind to it will end up going home with someone that night. So where is the ego stroke? It ain't you, baby, it is a lay...nothing more, nothing less...and it is often the guy who is being used. Aint' that a kick in the butt! If you really want to overcome this handicap, then get thee to a shrink and find out why you have such a low opinion of yourself. Getting a bed partner is NOT an accomplishment. Good luck
2006-07-04 06:53:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Underneath ego there is often insecurity. Or past issues with women such as mother issues. Or you had a Dad who set a trend for you. Maybe you need to look at when and why all of this started prior to starting another relationship.
2006-07-04 13:49:26 · answer #2 · answered by Justme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is probably something that developed in how you were raised, though, maybe you just haven't found the right woman? Can't really get in to more detail, because I don't really know you. Sorry, no miracle cure.
2006-07-04 13:50:15 · answer #3 · answered by stickfiguresk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called self control. It's also called truely caring for others.
Become the kind of person you look for in a partner.
2006-07-04 13:50:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
SELF CONTROL
if this is what you want....if you want to keep jumpin around, you will never change. if you want to stop, you will stop.
usually stems from a past incident but sometimes just yer ego needing fed
you have to change yerself
2006-07-04 13:54:20 · answer #5 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Yahoo answers your gonna get from women to this question should help your big ego.
ps
your problem may stem from insecurity.
2006-07-04 13:48:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im a woman in the same situation, just meet a girl and grin and bear it ., its easier
2006-07-04 13:52:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
control yourself and be a perfect and trusted for one an only women ,(wife) .
2006-07-04 13:49:08 · answer #8 · answered by handsum025 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋