ok im am a 16 year old high school student and i am currently talking to a wonderful guy who jsut happen to be my x. My problem is I really really like my x but there is another boy (boy M). Me and boy m hooked up like 2 weeks ago and i told my x about what happed.. (boy m is the reson y me and my X boke up in the first place)he wasnt mad or anything but lately he has been jsut thrwoing back in my face. i know hooking up with boy m was a HUGE mistake and i told my x guy it was but i dont think i can take him thrwoing it back in my face every 2 mins what should i do.. i know i was wrong but do i hvae the right to get mad at him for doing that ? Plez help
2006-07-04 06:45:34 · 12 answers · asked by ashleybaby147 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You screwed up. You apologized. If he can't accept that, you should move on. Just dont think that he *should* accept it. Most guys wont. I wouldn't.
2006-07-04 06:50:17 · answer #1 · answered by mills_pow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay. Be honest with yourself first of all. If you have stronger feelings towards Boy X, then let Boy M that you're relationship can no longer go on. Once you have done that, then tell Boy X how you are feeling and what exactly is going on. If he refuses to take you back, well, that's up to him. (So be really sweet and honest). Good Luck!! ^_^
2006-07-04 13:53:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe its simply time you drop both for a few weeks and just take some time to get your head together and think about what you really need and who. Just run freelance for a few weeks and give yourself some space to work out what you want. Its your life, not theirs and if they respect you and your wishes which ever one you want will still be there for you.
There is no need to frustrate yourself unecessarily, time is on your side. So use it to your advantage.
2006-07-04 13:55:48 · answer #3 · answered by Wendy D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok Never date a person twice forgive them if they did somethin love them as a friend but dont date them twice if it didnt work in the first place it wont work again. and I wouldnt get involved with anybody wwhile your in highschool because once you get in the real world and college n all that your going to meet alot more guys that are great.. asnd your going to wantto explore. so no point. now I gues if your just lookin for cock then fine do it.
2006-07-04 13:50:27 · answer #4 · answered by Remedy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, you can't have your cake & eat it, too... Break it off w/x because that's why u got a new guy in the 1st place...? By the way, what's boy m got to say about your involvement w/x? Does he even know...?
2006-07-04 13:50:01 · answer #5 · answered by KnowhereMan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are only 16 and you have every right to see other guys .dont feel guilty about boym if your x loved you he would not be angry . you are not obligated until he puts a ring on your finger. find true love ...life is to short.
2006-07-04 13:54:09 · answer #6 · answered by GASTON T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
-x-m=y Get it? You are not ready for a boyfriend... bottom line. Just enjoy life. Why is it that you have to have a boyfriend? Don't conform to society... just live life until you meet someone that make your toes curl and that's your man!!
2006-07-04 13:48:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
c if ur x understands u well then he wont say a word about it,
but if he doesnt stop his constant nagging then ignore him
he will himself come to his senses,
girl if u have done a mistake once then it doesnt mean u have to listen for it ur whole life
2006-07-04 13:50:50 · answer #8 · answered by frost fire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GOD help those who helps themselves, you created problems for your-self, now you have to take decision what to do next.....
2006-07-04 13:51:46 · answer #9 · answered by Ashish M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont know what to say lol. have u tryed just plain saying sorry i want u back?
2006-07-04 13:48:30 · answer #10 · answered by mountianbiker_dude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋