2006-07-04 06:39:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
No quick fix. It is time that heals and that does not always make it all better. Try not to fixate on the ex. Don't ask his friends questions about him. don't go where he is or might be for awhile. And try not to plot a revenge on him, or if you do don't carry through with it. Hang out with friends, talk on the phone, watch TV do things you like to do.
2006-07-04 06:52:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 3⤋
Don't burn your stuff - that won't help at all, it will just replace remorse with regret.
Get a group of your mates together & go out. I don't know how old you are so I won't suggest a pub but a day at the beach/fairground etc will be good to remind you of all the fun you can have whilst single. We all tend to forget our mates when we start new relationships, so go get them back.
I love a good flirt - it does wonders for your ego...........
Get a new hobby, stay occupied & don't dwell on the past. It's time to move on, everything happens for a reason & he just wasn't the one for you.
Stay happy
:-)
2006-07-04 06:57:03 · answer #2 · answered by MISS B.ITCH 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By looking at things from a diffrent perspective. Think about it from the point of view of your own insecurities. What has your ex done to you by rejecting you? Have they made you feel unattractive or inadequate? When you can address these issues and feel confident about yourself again, you'll be over it.
2006-07-04 07:58:16 · answer #3 · answered by stella9everytime 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time is the best healer, but in the meantime finding someone esle usually does the trick short term!
2006-07-04 06:56:55 · answer #4 · answered by Soso 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it takes time...in janarauy i had a boyfriend that lasted for a month and our annaversary was on febuary 14,then on febuary 13 he IMed me saying he wants to break up with me and wanted just to be my best friend.i cried for a week.then in like 2 months i finaly got over him.it jsut taked time
2006-07-04 06:44:27 · answer #5 · answered by litttlemouse 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to dwell on all the negative parts of the relationship.
2006-07-04 06:44:27 · answer #6 · answered by Gone fishin' 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best way to get over a girl is to get under another one!
replace girl for guy if you are female!
2006-07-04 06:43:54 · answer #7 · answered by Speedbird_747 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not think about the good times you had with them. If you do that you will be sad. Think of why you broke up with them; that will help. You will get through it, I know, I have been there.
2006-07-04 06:44:03 · answer #8 · answered by just curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd like the answer to that as well please. Still carry a torch for my ex even though its bin 2 buggering years.
2006-07-04 06:46:43 · answer #9 · answered by King Jobber 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sleep with their friends. Or ME and ill call them afterward.
2006-07-04 06:44:27 · answer #10 · answered by Louis Z 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋