For you men: Your with/dating a woman you like her alot lets say love her. To the point that you have discussed your views on family and marriage. You want to have kids and a family... you find out she cant have any. you love her & dont want to adopt... do you drop her because of her inability or love her as your family.
Does the prospect of no children change your idea of forever? Would you be happy with "just a dog" so to speak?
I cant have kids... Ive been told this by docs and have tried(sadly many times) with no success. Ive been dumped a couple of times once they found out I would never carry there child.
Is it possible to find love with being a "breeder"?
2006-07-04 06:08:50 · 9 answers · asked by Im just me 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There are lots of guys out there that have opted not to have kids, myself being one of them. I had a vasectomy to guarantee it. Just a personal choice, fortunately, for me.
There are plenty more that don't feel the need to procreate, yet want a family, and see the need in this world to adopt.
Keep looking.
And don't be afraid to keep trying! I do
2006-07-04 06:16:36 · answer #1 · answered by lowflyer1 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you ask an interesting question . I have been in that situation but I really understand how do you feel about. I have seeing a lot of woman dumped because they don't have kids. If you have good fate in your creator, you need to worry. I understand how frustrate that could be when every woman you see around can have and you don't and my advice to have fate in god and ask him everyday and believe nothing is impossible for him.
I hope my answer would help you
2006-07-04 06:26:34 · answer #2 · answered by o town 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find someone who loves you for you, and who is willing to adopt children with you. There are tons of kids up for adoption, you can also consider using a surrogate mother. Someone needs to fall in love with you, not your ability to have children.
2006-07-04 06:13:04 · answer #3 · answered by Jacci 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is more than just a word its very complicated and hard to explain in two words but when a man is truly in love with a women that leaves no doubt that she is the one and only he will change forever and she will be more than enough for him with or without kids
2006-07-04 06:15:57 · answer #4 · answered by donali 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweety I happen to know several really great men who don't even want kids... I know you will find a good man, and maybe just don't tell him you can't have kids. Best wishes
2006-07-04 06:12:30 · answer #5 · answered by colorist 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THERE ARE PLENTY OF NICE UNDERSTANDABLE MEN WHO WOULD BE WILLING TO ADOPT....DON;'T WORRY. YOU'LL FIND THE RIGHT MAN. GOOD LUCK
2006-07-04 06:11:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hay you you can find love and the guys that dumped you are loosers. HAY YOU LOOSERS,that dump girls like this. it's you F---ER- that give men like me a bad name.(grow up)
2006-07-05 02:59:07 · answer #7 · answered by TO FAST TO FURIOUS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is u just have to find some one that dosent want to have children
2006-07-04 06:13:16 · answer #8 · answered by mountianbiker_dude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man there is a lot of many crappy guys
2006-07-04 06:12:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋