I want to be satisfied and if he cant do it should i go elsewhere to get it?
2006-07-04 06:01:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
buy a vibrator and get him involved it makes you get full satisfaction without going outside the relationship. You dont want to risk losing him you must love him if your engaged to him. Just try that and see what happens then.
2006-07-04 06:06:17 · answer #1 · answered by Missy 3 · 5⤊ 1⤋
If you think he can't satisfy you then you shouldn't be engaged and planning to be married. This is a serious relationship if you are calling him your fiance so of course you shouldn't go outside it unless you are ready to call it quits. If you really love him then you have to make compromises within the relationship not outside it. You need to discuss this with him now.
2006-07-04 13:19:52 · answer #2 · answered by Judy D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't seem like u truely love him for wanting to go elsewhere for sex-he's about to be your husband! what are u thinking girl? you'll most likely regret it if u do u it because you will one day realize the importance of a relationship and sex shouldn't be the most important aspect if you are that much of a sex lover don't get married because you'll not only end up breaking jis heart but yours in the long run too-think this over, seriously.
2006-07-04 13:15:16 · answer #3 · answered by Cleo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must talk to him about the problem.Have you ever heard about polyamourous couples?That's when one partner has sexual relations outside of the primary one but with the permission and sometimes the participation of the other spouse.This only works if the love is strong and there are no fears of rejection from the primary spouse.good luck,don't settle for less than you deserve.
2006-07-04 13:18:03 · answer #4 · answered by racquel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought it was always the guy who had this problem. I am guessing there are other reasons you want to marry him - that is your business, but there can be problems with adultery. If this important to you, I suggest to reconsider. There are probably many other guys who would find you very attractive, are compatible with you, and can match your sex drive.
2006-07-05 17:31:50 · answer #5 · answered by Joseph 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's only wrong if you feel it's wrong. If you have feelings of guilt. I would not reccomend doing it behind his back if you value your relationship. If he finds out it could ruin it. I would try talking to him to get a feel about you going other places. Or try using toys together
2006-07-04 13:52:38 · answer #6 · answered by scamresearcher407 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you can get away with it go for it if he cant satisfy you know it will only get worse later do u really that kind of a marriage dint get married any time soon
2006-07-04 13:25:20 · answer #7 · answered by to2screw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
careful - with thoughts like that your future marriage has already failed - his sex drive will probably only lessen were yours will increase - we crave that which we can not have or do not get - I say rethink your marriage to him. your present love will not keep your marriage together years from now if you are not sexually satisfied then.
2006-07-04 13:20:02 · answer #8 · answered by zqx357 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES it is WRONG. let me tell u 1 truth even if he is your fiancee u can'd do sex with him. it is sin before your creator, GOD, THREFORE if u want to be deliverd from sexual lust repent your sin now and accept JESUS CHRIST AS YOUR LOARD AND SAVIOUR. THEN THE HOLYSPRIT WILL HELP U INDEED FROM SUCH KIND OF BAD DESIRE AND HABITE. SEX IS NOT SIN BY ITSELF RATHER IT IS NATURAL AND GOOD IT BECOMES SIN WITHOT MARRIAGE. FOR MORE contact mee win_abenezer@yahoo.com
2006-07-04 13:21:00 · answer #9 · answered by abebe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u might want to talk to him abt it if ur gonna get married!
2006-07-04 13:06:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋