Why do women against they're man going to night parties, I mean my girlfriend is at her friends for about 4 days straight now, and I'm getting bored so I decided to go to a party, but I wanted tell her instead of her thinking that I'm sneaking around on her, when I told her she had an attitude telling me "I don't care you can go," But she's having fun with her friends why can't I have a little fun. I;m not a cheater or anything. She saids girls flirt with me to much, but it ain't like I'm cheating on her, I don't even flirt back. Somebody tell me why she has this attitude when it comes down to me having a little fun at the party. I told that It starts at 9:30pm and I won't be home til about 1 or 2 in the mourning, man she's really tripping too. Now I don't know if she wants me to go or not? It's just a party man, fellas you understand right? But I want a woman opinion on this.
2006-07-04 05:55:25 · 8 answers · asked by sugarbear 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
screw her just go and have fun
2006-07-04 05:59:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your girlfriend is having just a classic case of insecurity.She's afraid that if you go to a party that you'll spot some woman that may be even more physically appealing than her leading to you not being able to resist maybe hooking up with her. It's all just insecurity and trust, but her insecurity is perfectly normal and maybe you should try reassuring her that you would never commit any horrible thing against her.
2006-07-04 13:02:42 · answer #2 · answered by caitymercede 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go. Don't tolerate her double standard. Do as she does, not as she says. But, you must also pay attention to your reaction to other girls - do you TRULY not flirt back? That can be a cause of some jealousy. Or, maybe she is projecting. Oftentimes people are most worried about their significant others doing exactly what they are doing...
2006-07-04 13:05:39 · answer #3 · answered by Roach25486 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she has a problem trusting you. you just need to prove to her that you wont do anything. soon the trust will grow and it will be easier. i would say go out and have fun because she is too. i have had situations like this w/ my bf many times. once my he was out w/ his friends and i was home bored when one of my guy friends asked if i wanted to go somewhere w/ him. my bf wasnt too sure about it but i went and when i came home safe and still loyal he has eased up on things and is ok w/ letting me go out.
2006-07-04 13:05:45 · answer #4 · answered by txbaby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has a fear of loosing you, I use to be the same way with my ex I didn't like him talking to other girls, because I know that he is attractive and girls will flirt with him. I'm not saying that she doesn't trust you, it's just she doesn't trust the other girls when she isn't around.
2006-07-04 13:01:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HI! Sounds to me like maybe,possibly,she's doing something she shouldn't behind your back when she goes out,so she figures you'd do the same. You can always try asking to go with her and her friends or going with you somewhere for a change.
I'd be a bit leery though.Sounds like she's hiding something.
Best Wishes.
2006-07-04 13:01:58 · answer #6 · answered by moonstruck_ru 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ill tell you what she is doing. she knows her limits and wont cross them. but for some reason she doesnt trust you. have you given her a reason? she feels you will cross your boundaries which most men do . so she just plain dont trust you.
2006-07-04 13:03:21 · answer #7 · answered by eaglestraces123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go, if she goes to a party then you can go to.
2006-07-04 13:01:06 · answer #8 · answered by ♥beautyfly♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋