2006-07-04 05:53:28 · 30 answers · asked by guest 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its ok, love holds no barriers, besides 24 and 30 is not much of a difference. Go baby, go for it.
2006-07-04 05:59:25 · answer #1 · answered by ash_m_79 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're not going crazy. When I was almost 20 I fell in love with a twenty six year old woman with three kids. I was mature for my age, so I was able to keep her happy, and she was a woman which was so much of a breath of fresh air from dating girls to me. We were together for two years and under the right circumstances, I would have popped the question. We broke up for reasons unrelated to our age difference or the kids, but she was the first woman I ever dated and has completely changed my perspective on what a man should get from a woman emotionally and physically and every other way that applies to a relationship. If this guy loves you back, chances are, he feels the wame way. I say embrace it. Are you crazy? Without a doubt, but insanity is an essential ingredient to any passionate romance. Best of luck.
2006-07-04 13:03:05 · answer #2 · answered by Chris D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no your not crazy... age is no big deal I'm in love with a woman 18 years younger then me. we get along so well but the age thing has bothered me something terribly. I have decided to put this in Gods hand if it is meant to be it will happen. As in my situation the age difference between you and him is no big deal considering we all have to die. My feelings are if you love him go for it and let it happen. If he loves you that deeply then you should let it happen. I have had to break it off because I'm thinking man 18 years difference then there is a guy next door to me who is 20 years older then his wife and they have been married for 15 years happy. So with that said I want to take a step back and make sure I do love her and that she loves me. I told her on the phone I love her with all my heart but I need time to think about things now I miss her. So with all this said I feel that age is merely a number and has no bearing on love, a great relationship, holding hands, kissing, sex and being together. Give him a big chance I say.
2006-07-04 13:04:49 · answer #3 · answered by Greenhornet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
30 is young !. I believe that you are simply in-love with another young person like yourself. Provided that he likes you back, you will be happy and their is no need to focus on the age difference. Maturity is what matters reguardless of his age. If he's 24 and acts 15 he's too young [mentally] for you. But if he's 24 and you feel like you can be yourself, then thats all that matters. Trust me how old a guy acts is what matters. If you date a 50 year old that pouts around and acts like he's 12, then he's too young mentally lol. But i believe over 18 is all that matters.
2006-07-04 12:58:46 · answer #4 · answered by goldcrush22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No that's not crazy at all. In fact at this time, women everywhere are finding love with younger men........amazingly younger men are able to return that love.
Someone years ago decided women should marry older men who could work and support them properly. Their parents wanted that so they wouldn't have to be responsible for the support of their daughters for a lifetime.
Now women hold jobs and support themselves.......I think it's time we started changing those old stagnant rules that cause unhappiness, and let women decide who they love based on feelings rather than security.
If you have a chance, please visit my 360 page and go through my blogs until you reach the polls I have there. One of them is dedicated to this subject and I would like for you to add your vote and opinion.
Enjoy your life.
2006-07-04 13:01:39 · answer #5 · answered by purplewings123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with that as long as he feels the same way too. I had an aunt who married a man (my Uncle) who was 10 years younger than her and they have been married almost 40 years. Love is love and it sees no age.
2006-07-04 13:02:25 · answer #6 · answered by lostinlove 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think your crazy. Love knows no age. :0)
Do you know if he feels the same about you? Have you expressed your love for him?
If you have, and he feels the same go with it!
If you have not, I would suggest doing so. If the feelings are not mutual, and you continue to have them, that's the time when you should get help.
2006-07-04 13:01:29 · answer #7 · answered by Donna A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not crazy at all. :) I'm 4 years older than my fiance.. I'm currently 23, him 19. Of course, I can't wait for him to be 20 and out of the teenager group, but I've been with him for 5 years. For us it works! If you love him, be with him. :)
2006-07-04 12:59:02 · answer #8 · answered by iheartjohnprose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! Go for it. Love doesn't come in categories of number ratios so don't worry. If you both feel the same then enjoy and be happy! Love is great no matter what the ages.
2006-07-04 12:57:42 · answer #9 · answered by Lets_see... 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age is only a number. My last wife is 15 years younger than I am, however she now has decieded I am too old for her. :-( She is in deep depression, however and I believe I can convince her she still would like to have a hot ride with me again. Just remember everybody gets older and deal with it now rather than later. In the mean time, **** like monkeys!
2006-07-04 12:58:35 · answer #10 · answered by PartyTime 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋