I think my g/f's best friend, Juddi, has either got the hots for me or is hell-bent on breaking us up. She keeps making subtle sexual innuendos/insinuations and moves the whole time we are all together. On various occasions, she has even called me and asked me if she could talk to me alone about what she calls “a very delicate situation”- which, needless to say, I have politely refused, by making up all kinds of excuses! I know I'm just an "object" of conquest for her deep-seated jealousy and lack of self-realization and inner-happiness. I have tried to avoid her every chance I get, but my g/f gets pissed off at me if I don't accompany her to the events and occasions where Juddi happens to be present as well. I have even talked to my g/f about the unnerving situation, but she keeps dismissing it as my wild imagination and Juddi's otherwise bubbly nature!! Frankly, I don't know what else to do, short of making a real mess out of everyone's relationship. I adore my g/f in every sense of the word and don't wanna lose her, nor do I necessarily want her to break up with her best friend (if the woman can be helped in some way, that is). This is a real catch 22, any suggestions?
2006-07-04 05:51:00 · 5 answers · asked by lowonbrain 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Keep refusing to talk to her and when you get into the "delicate situations" make sure your girlfriend is around when she tries to talk to you about it..Or just be a real man and tell her to leave you the hell alone and that you are in love with your girlfriend.
You might be one of those men who can not say NO!
And if you think I am fake then please give me your email
address and I can do Cami with you and you can see me for sure.
I am so sick of all the crap about how unreal or fake I am.;
If you cant handle hot sexy women then don't answer my questions. I thought you were way better then that and when you want to slam me with your o' well I think it's fake...Then here is your chance to see if I am fake or not!
Heay I am cooking up some great duck make sure you stop by and have some! Big Hugs and major kisses LOL
2006-07-04 08:39:01 · answer #1 · answered by MissChatea 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I have a few suggestions, hopefully you can work them in. Ignore this so called "best friend". When your g/f is not around, don't answer her calls. When you two are around each other, try and be as rude to her without your g/f knowing. If she wines to your g/f about how mean you are, just look at your g/f with a blank look on your face and say "what?" and shrug your shoulders. Give your g/f the "innocent me" look. Juddi will soon get the message, you can play her game back in her face. Had same situation, it worked for me, but I had to be very careful, and It didn't happen overnight. Hang in there Hun, things always have way to bite them back on the ***. Have an awesome day :-)
2006-07-04 13:32:53 · answer #2 · answered by evil2innocence 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show Juddi this. Juddi, leave the man alone. He is only friendly with you because he cares very much for his girlfriend and doesn't want to loose her. If you continue with your flirty behavior and cause them to break up he won't have anymore to do with you anyway so STOP IT NOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-04 13:00:46 · answer #3 · answered by Judy D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I don't know what to say, you wrote everything.Maybe because you tried to talk with your girlfriend and it didn't work try to talk with Juddi and ask her what is the problem here.Ask her directly if you think that she likes you or want you to break up.If she don't answers nothing or refuses than try not to pay attention to her or hers conversation.Good luck
2006-07-04 12:57:58 · answer #4 · answered by ♥beautyfly♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your g/f could be right, but gut instinct tells me Juddi is out to nail you. She could be hot for you, or just seeing if you'll stray, and then report it to your g/f.
Be careful around her.
2006-07-04 12:56:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋