I am 19 and Im still a virgin because every time my bf and I try to have sex, it hurts so damn much I cant stand it. Is this normal? Any tips on how I can correct the problem?
2006-07-04 05:32:51 · 20 answers · asked by NBGirl 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It doesn't mean you're not ready for sex. You're 19 which means biologically, you're never gonna be more ready for sex than you are now. I've heard of cases like this before and I had a girlfriend that had the same issue so I looked into what the problem might have been. What I found out was that on a rare occasion, a woman is born with extremely sensitive skin inside the vagina which is treated by taking skin from other place on the body and putting it there. But that doesn't mean you are like her. My girlfriend was younger, but I stayed in touch with her and the issue persisted until she was into her early 20s in after which she just dealt with the pain and got through it. But that doesn't mean that you are like her. The only advice you should listen to on a forum like this is to be examined by a medical professional and have them tell you what it is.
2006-07-04 05:44:46 · answer #1 · answered by Chris D 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to do foreplay stimulate your clitoris
pet a little if you are a virgin it will hurt over time it wont OK and you Will get used to him and if you choose other penises but....... the woman that is fresh all ways gets the most respect from their husbands to be!
2006-07-04 05:39:33 · answer #2 · answered by VHEE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a friend so small she couldn't even use junior size tampons. Go to a gynecologist and talk honestly and see if it is size or if its muscle contraction. If it is size and you get a guy who doesn't take "stop" as an option you could end up tearing and causing painful damage to yourself.
2006-07-04 05:41:41 · answer #3 · answered by Lets_see... 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be beneficial to call at a gynecologist to assist in solving this problem, I think it's with the hymen rather than the vagina.
2006-07-04 05:38:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay first there is nothing wrong with you i was the same way. your boyfriend needs to make you ready fingers mouth whatever it might take awhile but stick to it. It will happen when your body is ready not your mind!
2006-07-04 05:40:06 · answer #5 · answered by flutter_by_baby20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take it easy.... and also...don't try so hard... make sure he gives you lots of kisses there first.
Don't try to put it all the way in right away...go in an inch..for a while...then try a little more...relax and enjoy
2006-07-04 05:37:28 · answer #6 · answered by gcbtrading 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not still a virgin. It takes awhile for things to get all opened up downt there sometimes. (Not that I'm suggesting they should be opened up yet)
2006-07-04 05:37:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all the Flames suck.........lol. Just kidding. I would go see your doctor and talk about your problem. They would have a solution for u.
2006-07-04 05:39:33 · answer #8 · answered by hoop_102 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Extremely normal. Your boyfriend should be 'working' his way in with his fingers before you guys have sex. IT takes a while, but.....
2006-07-04 05:35:47 · answer #9 · answered by Batmen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should relax or you are just not ready to have sex,but i don't get how you are a virgin!
2006-07-04 05:37:53 · answer #10 · answered by Amber 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋