The reason why i ask this question is because since i started to have no one had benn able to make me ***. i like i can go for hours.. I want to *** so bad that sometimes i get my hopes up high only to be disapointed.. also it's like when im having sex im really into it.. Could that be tha reason why? I want a lover thats going to take me to another place during sex....
2006-07-04 04:24:51 · 13 answers · asked by valdathomas2003 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
do you know what you like? you have to know yourself before anyone can really please you.....
2006-07-04 04:28:40 · answer #1 · answered by Joose 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Much the same way men can suffer from performance anxiety, some women can find themselves so concerned with having an orgasm, they over compensate and fail to enjoy reaching that point. I'm not claiming to be any kind of expert, but I would imagine that slowing things down, and focusing on what nerve centers you're involving may help too. I know that there have been different angles used on different girls that I have been with. What worked great for one, may not do a thing for another, so each has different triggers. I have also been with one girl who could not reach an orgasm during intercourse at all, but could feel the earth move when I was giving her oral pleasures. So, you will have to explore your options, and find out what works best for you. Good luck.
2006-07-04 04:50:15 · answer #2 · answered by nonya_askme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like you are about 12. Your question is so broken I can't figure out what you are asking. From this I conclude that you are probably too young to be having sex or you need to get some books and educate yourself on english first before you try to ask anymore questions on the subject of sex.
2006-07-04 04:37:28 · answer #3 · answered by Judy D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now that's not completely fair...you have to do some of the work and help your partner figure out what pleases you.
Don't put so much importance on the "result" concentrate on having the best "right now" and the payoff will just naturally occur.
It's ok to want to go to "another place" but you have to at least let your partner know what state it's in...
2006-07-04 04:30:12 · answer #4 · answered by R J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you seem to have really high expectations, and even if you have the best of lovers you will always be disappointed. The other problem is that you focus too much on having an orgasm, live in the moment and enjoy it.... you'll see how easy it will be for you to have many orgasms. Its all in your head, dont stress too much over it.
2006-07-04 04:35:01 · answer #5 · answered by Marc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try some new things... unfortunately, most girls can NOT orgasm from vaginal intercourse, no matter how long you go. Almost all women require clitoral stimulation... so have your partner go down on you... or you could masturbate your clitoris while he is inside you... look into it... there are so many different ways to do it, you are sure to find one that works like a charm for you.
2006-07-04 04:29:51 · answer #6 · answered by lizwatson109 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not bad , but its not as enjoyable as when u do ,the best thing to do is try masterbating alot to find out what way make u come the best and the quickest, and the hardest, then transfer thoses ways into having sex, ,, u have to know what u like before someone else can
2006-07-04 04:31:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the same thing happens to me i have never came since i stared having sex only during oral let me tell you what to do rub your clit or get a small vibrator and rub your clit with while your having sex it that should do the trick
2006-07-04 04:28:29 · answer #8 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your man what you like. If his penis doesn't bring you over the edge, have him use his fingers. Lips and tongues work pretty well too :)
He'll be happy to oblige you
2006-07-04 04:27:22 · answer #9 · answered by Mr. O'Clock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him, maybe you need to take control and be the one on top that way you can put it exactly where it feels good, you can also play with your self during intercourse.. trust me he will love it...
2006-07-04 04:29:25 · answer #10 · answered by Funny Lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Mr. O'clock. If he's any kind of lover, he'll oblige you.
2006-07-04 04:29:38 · answer #11 · answered by HoneyBee24-7-365 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋