I am 26 year old man, never dating with women because I am very shy . I see many women look at me . May that due to good looking , but I was waiting to women approach first to me . But this does not happend to me. I am not confident to introduce first. So I am alone. I see that women prefer man of strong persomality. So , I afraid to be rejection if she knows me as not strong man. I want to know , is there any women on the world who can true love me knowing that I am shy and not dominant type ?
2006-07-04 03:39:28 · 4 answers · asked by Bluelover 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Iam married to a sissy. Who never dated anyone that he searched out for himself, he always got set up by friends or the girl asked him out.
But at some point he got balls enough to ask me out after being single for a long long time.
Theres someone for everyone, but your insecurities will lead to worse problems than not dating, if you continue to let them rule your life.
Grab your balls and go say hello to some nice girl. (dear God thats a metaphor, dont grab yourself when talking to women...eeesh). You dont need to ask someone out, or purpose marriage. Just go say hello, ask how the weather is.
you have to get over yourself, the world isnt served on a silver platter. You can do it, iam confident in you.
2006-07-04 03:45:29 · answer #1 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First you need to improve on your writing skills. Your english is very broken and your spelling is outrageous. There are many women who could Love you but the question is could you love them? There is no magic wand, you just need to learn to love yourself and everything else will follow. Start reading books that interest you. Get yourself a hobby. Get involved in community events. Go to church. People will notice you. If you educate yourself and feel good about yourself "they will come". Good luck.
2006-07-04 11:04:45 · answer #2 · answered by Judy D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong in not being "dominant" - I find it curious that you use that word. Every one is an individual, and each is strong in his own ways. I'm sure you have your own strengths, and you need to capitalize on them. Confidence can be developed, sometimes by just practicing in easy situations. Good luck.
2006-07-04 10:45:20 · answer #3 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it will take a strong dominant woman to approach you , you need the opposite of what you are
2006-07-04 10:53:34 · answer #4 · answered by jojo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋