Im 20 years old and like to be treated with respect. Would dying my hair help? Or what?
2006-07-04 03:27:39 · 28 answers · asked by Coco 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is sad. It sounds more like to me that the guys really do like you, but don't really know how to approach you. I know this is not a "comforting" answer, but, sometimes when a guy feels like---"She wouldn't like me, She is too pretty", they will in turn act mean to you. Don't let them see you "sweat". Stay in control.
2006-07-04 03:31:18 · answer #1 · answered by ride2cowboy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dying your hair won't make any difference. The only thing you need to do is to make people respect u. In the other words do things that will deserve and command respect. For your age and your disposition you might only need to be cautious and reserved (not the lousy type). It will surprise you how people change.
However, on the other hand you need to change your perception of people. You seem to be a victim of self hallo effect. You need to see yourself on a better perspective and then leave the rest to the natural order. I hope you understand. APPRECIATE YOURSELF! but don't be proud.
Good Luck.
2006-07-04 03:35:43 · answer #2 · answered by Sage_Learner 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, dont even think about doing it! Changing your hair color, or doing anything to your appearance will not help. You should only change something if YOU will respect yourself more after doing it. Try achieving something in the area that is the most desirable to you. I dont know, start writing poetry or something, and get good at it. Seriously, you can make it if you try. But you only get respect if you GIVE YOURSELF the respect you deserve.
2006-07-04 03:32:55 · answer #3 · answered by michelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In order to be treated with respect, you must command respect. It has nothing to do with hair color, it's about how much you respect yourself. If a man treats you like dirt, it's because you allow him to.
2006-07-04 03:32:49 · answer #4 · answered by Taffi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will hold my tongue on the blonde jokes, Absolutely do not color your hair lady.You are just around the wrong guy's. If you are healthy then there is nothing to change. Besides hair color will not help your health. Take a step back and look at how you act, are you rude or nice, do you belittle people when you talk to them and so on. Looks are yours and you do with as you wish. If you are around rude people then expect them to be rude to you too. Listen to me I am telling you to not color your hair and then telling you to do as you wish. I am a little bossy by nature, sorry. But good luck.
2006-07-04 03:39:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People shouldn't treat you that way because of how you look. If they do, don't talk to them. You'll find someone who will respect you for who you are. Until then, just be patient, and don't let anyone walk all over you.
2006-07-04 03:29:58 · answer #6 · answered by Caryssa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Treat yourself with respect and refuse to surround yourself with anyone who "treats you like dirt". Come on, really, hair color has nothing to do with it. They can only treat you the way you allow them to treat you silly, unless your bound and gagged I imgaine that you can walk away from shi**y people and find folks with some damn sense!
2006-07-04 03:41:08 · answer #7 · answered by jessalyn2727 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dying your hair is a solution, but why should you? it what is inside (and i dont mean your body parts) that counts. i would treat you with respect because youre older and deserve it anyway.
2006-07-04 03:31:06 · answer #8 · answered by Army Boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave all the losers alone that make you feel like crap and find someone that will treat you with the up-most respect and courtesy. you deserve better and there is someone out there that will give that to you.
2006-07-04 03:37:39 · answer #9 · answered by BigDaddy82 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it would not help.....either you keep running into guys that are jsut as**oles......or you in some way show that you are one that loves to be abused. Seeing how I doubt it is the latter, run with a better crownd, you sound cute, and deserve something better
2006-07-04 03:30:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋