So boring in the sack?

Question

My girl is so boring in the sack. Anytime we try to do anything different she says it hurts. I use lube and am extremely gentle. I want to try different things and she never really does. Obviously I respect this but what should I do to try and get her to do different things?

it does not hurt her if we do missionary or she rides me but if i go deep into her or doggy and a few others she always says it hurts.

Answer 1

Give her date-rape pill and tequila. Then handcuff her.

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Answer 2

Give her a massage. Get her motor going, get her to the point where you can feel that her body is begging for whatever you're willing to give her; then give her whatever you want to offer. (TIP--when you flip her over on her back, while massaging, put your shirt over her face. now she can't see, but she can smell you. it'll drive her absolutely mad if you can pull it off correctly.) Make her want it real bad, then tease her a little bit. Once she can't take it anymore, I guarantee you she'll be open to new ideas.
OR, if you've got money to spend, try this. Get her a toy or two, and once she's warmed up, tell her this.
"I'll give or do whatever you want from here on out, and you can have it anyway you want, but no penis for (pick an amount of time or go indefinitely) minutes. For added fun, take things away. Tell her she can't talk, and that she has to point and show you exactly how she wants it.
If none of this is able to get her open and talking, then she might be a woman that values and feels comfortable only with the similar styles that she's used to.

Answer 3

Are you going in the right hole?? Look, try and get her in the mood more. Try foreplay newb! Watch a porn with her or mess around first. Maybe have a few drinks. Sounds like she is not that into you if you need ot use lube. Try turning her on for once and stop being so damn selfish!

Answer 4

Find out whether or not there is genuine pain or this is a block to avoid sex.

You need to approach this, not confrontationally, but concerned.

"The last few times we were intimate, you said you were in pain. I am concerned that this may be some kind of indication that things aren't right down there. Sex should never hurt. What can we do to make our lovemaking more enjoyable for the both of us?"

The next move would be hers

Answer 5

Is she willing to watch porn with u? Or read erotic books? Or magazines? If she is, buy a Kama Sutra book, and mark some of the pages that you find interesting......maybe she'll take a hint and be more willing to experiment.....I personally can't imagine anyone not willing to experiment.

Answer 6

Get a sex book and read it together. Or buy one of those sex tip video's they advertise in the paper. Also tell her to see her gynecologist, if it always hurts and you use lube, she may have some kind of infection.

Answer 7

After a woman orgasms her pain sensors sort of switch off.....my suggestion is to do everything it takes to make her really have an orgasm and after that she will be game for whatever that night. Best wishes

Answer 8

Ummmmmmmmm no offense but are you bringing her at all to Orgasm? Sex shouldn't hurt unless intended to, you might want to ask her what SHE wants or if she in the mood.

Answer 9

Have her get a doctor's checkup to see what is wrong and discuss what can be done. It might be a physical issue that can be corrected.

Answer 10

This is all up to her, to come out of the closet and get freaky, if you push it on her I believe it will backfire on you. Give her time. Good luck.