there is this guy who lives in the house opposite to mine my family n his family have freindship . it is that he likes me n i too i like him , i mean its been last 8 months that everyday he comes on his roof or out in his balcony from where my room is visible n me too .
he comes n sits there the whole day and keeps stareing at me he dosent know that i know he loves me cause i never had an eye contact with him when he looks at me n none of us have ever talked with each other i wanted to make him know that i would like to talk to him plz giveme some ideas of how to do so .? should i look at him when he is stareing ? i was planning to write a note and keep it on his door so that he gets it but theres a possibility of his brothers reading that note so wat should i write on it or wat should i do? plz help me i really love this guy
2006-07-04 02:36:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no. notes are just as bad as him staring at you. you wont get anywhere like that.
get up the courage to knock on his door. and then ask for him. and then ask him to take a walk with you.
dont tell him that you know he watches you just yet. because its kinda creepy that he does that, and it might embarass him.
2006-07-04 02:42:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really want to start out a relationship with him. First be a friend, get to know him and STOP being so shy. Shyness ain't going to help you. Stop ignoring him he's going to think you're not interested, (you don't like him), so try to make eye contact and smile and hold his gaze for a while. Wave to him and say hi when you see him looking at you. It's been how long (5 months???) or so, it looks like he's waiting for YOU to make the first move. Some boys are like that , you know??? Since you certainly have a strong feeling for him , then you need to step up and make the first move. You can't say you love him cause you don't know him, it sounds stupid when you say that. So if you really like him then just stop ignoring him and give him your best smiles and wave, do something. YAH KNOW???
2006-07-04 02:46:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would anyone have the time to just sit all day and stare at someone?
Get a job
or go to votech and get training for a job.
If it happens, what a sorry way to use a perfectly good life.
Find a girl and quit thinking about guys.
2006-07-04 02:40:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, since you are neighbors you could just go over and talk to him, you know get to know him better, let him get to know you better, and maybe it will evolve into something more.
2006-07-04 02:41:36 · answer #4 · answered by Lizzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds crazy to me, why is he on the roof watching you in your room? sounds like he's possesive or a stalker ! either way be careful
2006-07-04 02:44:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WTF???? On his roof??? You better make sure to keep a really good diary that way when the make a Lifetime Special out of you, they will have good details and notes! Somethings not right.....danger,danger,danger!!
2006-07-04 02:40:57 · answer #6 · answered by Pimp_Slapper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to him.
2006-07-04 02:39:59 · answer #7 · answered by littlehincks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm...give him your sweetest smile. uhhh, yeah, bat your eyelashes too-for effect. hehe.
it depends. well. i think it'd be nice if you go and ask help from flirts. they know stuff like that.
anyways, it's best to follow ur heart. :)
gooood luck. :D
2006-07-04 02:49:15 · answer #8 · answered by smashmouth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him.
2006-07-04 03:19:15 · answer #9 · answered by Niceguy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at him and wave.
2006-07-04 02:40:36 · answer #10 · answered by Texas Cowboy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋