i was raised alone as both my parents were working. Hence i find it extremely disturbing when a person tries to violate my personal space even if if happens to be a sexy lady. It could be detrimental for my future relationships like marraige etc....how do i overcome this paranoia of space violation....
2006-07-04 02:21:29 · 8 answers · asked by rightGONEwrong 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
I know where you're coming from - I have a problem with personal space as well. The way I overcame it was practice, practice, practice. The more you have someone in your personal space, the more you will become comfortable with it. If it is too much of an issue to do this, I would suggest counselling.
2006-07-04 02:25:49 · answer #1 · answered by Tammy O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its simple! Just understand the philosophy of life that u r not alone who is living this life - its 'us' - we all r living this life together. The person with u is as much alive as u r - And somehow or other we all r connected - Try to understand that the person next to u is a part of u - And then there r stories and so many things to talk about, to learn, to teach and make every moment creative.
2006-07-04 09:33:31 · answer #2 · answered by abhi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Little by little. You have to be determined to learn to socialize. I could not be touched for years. Start by getting closer to a friend or someone you trust, let them in on it if you can. Go out of yr house. Use public trans.
Compliment people on their clothing. Join a club. Go to the movies when crowded.
Just be around people often. Make yrself do it! More and more and closer situations!
I now enjoy spending the night with a woman - and the thought once terrified me!!!
2006-07-04 09:28:49 · answer #3 · answered by helixburger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get tickets for the mosh pit of really hard metal band concert. Its either going to help or turn you off metal music
2006-07-04 09:25:54 · answer #4 · answered by Mrs D 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in same situation-I was raised by everybody except my parents
2006-07-04 09:26:35 · answer #5 · answered by anči 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try and loosen up, relax and just let things go as they may.
2006-07-04 09:24:55 · answer #6 · answered by The King of All Answerer's 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't. Let people know when you feel uncomfortable with them being so close to you.
2006-07-04 09:28:42 · answer #7 · answered by Alecia M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Date as much as you can, and practice warm hellos, and warm chatting, and warm goodbyes?
2006-07-09 21:39:11 · answer #8 · answered by thewordofgodisjesus 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋