2006-07-04 01:56:16 · 11 answers · asked by rose 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
It really isn't difficult to believe in love again - it is difficult to get over the fear of being hurt again. Really, there is a difference. Most of our actions are out of fear - fear of being alone, fear of being hurt, fear of appearing the fool, fear, fear, fear.
Some say that once your heart is broken, there is only room for more - and that CAN be the way it is. It takes serious introspection - figuring out why you got hurt and what you did or didn't do - what you didn't see - and then applying that knowledge to your future, changing yourself to be a better person, more aware, more compassionate. And then forcing yourself to be open to the world.
Because it is a leap of faith - it is mind over fear. You have to CHOOSE to be open to life and love...you have to tell yourself that while you got badly hurt, you didn't DIE - and if you get hurt again, you won't DIE --- you will survive. And know that the only way you will ever just happen to run in to the "right" person for you is if you (both) continue to be open to being in love.
2006-07-04 02:04:03 · answer #1 · answered by two 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I can only speak for myself my heart just got broken and the biggest part about that was the trust issue you may be able to love again but it's going to be hard to trust again.
2006-07-04 10:48:02 · answer #2 · answered by kat9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is difficult, but love will find you. When you go out just looking for love you usually make the wrong choice. Take your time and learn from your experience. Go to places like museums, social gatherings, plays, recitals and places where you may find that right person. Have you tried church?
2006-07-04 09:19:17 · answer #3 · answered by eunke77 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's difficult because it hurts deep inside!!!For a certain time it seems like you've lost the path of life!!!I know!!!You have to suffer...and suffer...and suffer!Talk about it with a close friend as many times as you need!!!Go out!Meet new people!!!Dress up!!!Don't look for love...it will strike you when you less are expecting!!!Smile...ok?Times will be better!
2006-07-04 10:49:24 · answer #4 · answered by jokersmile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its really hard to believe next time nut life does not stop here its has to go n just wait n watch u will be love again
2006-07-04 09:22:28 · answer #5 · answered by saba s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will believe again it takes time but don't give into to loving someone if you don't think you recieving love back
2006-07-04 20:09:01 · answer #6 · answered by Bamachick06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you've been hurt, it happened to me and i could not go out with anyone for about 2 years, talking about it helps even though you may say the same things a hundred times, talk to someone.
2006-07-04 09:46:35 · answer #7 · answered by daisy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well when our heart is broken we are scared that it will happen again so its not that we dont trust its that we are being cautious not to let it happen again.
2006-07-04 09:02:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-07-04 09:15:25 · answer #9 · answered by Mani* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's hard to trust again
2006-07-04 09:00:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋