A girl is engage to the man who loves her but the girl loves another man, who is her best friend. Should she wait for her bestfriend to court her or marry now the man she is engage in?
2006-07-04 01:41:19 · 14 answers · asked by Seeker 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you marry the one who loves you, you'll just end up hurting him and your unborn children down the road. You have to be in love, life is hard enough. It's better to be single and wait till you meet someone you love who loves you. Even if it is 5 years down the road. How would you feel if someone didn't love you? They would have expectations and wouldn't really care for your feelings, they would care more about their own life than yours, and in the long run would eventually end up hurting you very deeply.
2006-07-04 01:53:07 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you marry someone who you don't love it will never work out. You need to put you first and marry the one that you love. The person that loves you will be hurt but in time will get over it. They will learn that it was for the best. If you marry someone that you don't love you will only start to resent the person and you don't want that.
2006-07-04 02:33:01 · answer #2 · answered by Wahenie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She shouldn't marry the man who loves her. She should forget about the best friend. If he were interested, he would have made a move long ago. She needs to start looking again.
2006-07-04 01:48:34 · answer #3 · answered by Superstar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Luv is a two way street, it's has to be give and take therefore find the middle ground here. And that is some one who you love and can love you back.When you love some one who doesn't care about you it herts because its never easy to see the one you truly love care so much for some one and not you. True recipe to a long marriage is compromise and loving one another. Good luck my friend finding love.
2006-07-04 01:56:39 · answer #4 · answered by nikitta 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a situation for sure.
There was a song "If you can't be with the one you love - love the one you're with..."
My thinking goes like this...who gets engaged when they aren't in love or have feelings for another??
Finish business...if she's not in love, she shouldn't marry.
Period.
2006-07-04 01:47:17 · answer #5 · answered by Warrior 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best situation is when both loves each other but in this case the girl should think twice Bcoz its her life if she thinks that she can maintain her life with the guy who loves her and he has some ups (that later she can find when she try to love him with the time lol) then why not.
2006-07-04 01:49:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd marry the nice one. I mean the one that's a good girl.
2006-07-04 01:47:36 · answer #7 · answered by smile4763 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
marryt the one u love cause if u marry the one that loves u u will be miserable ur hoel life so marry the one u love
2006-07-04 01:49:48 · answer #8 · answered by Kara 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
marry the one she is in love with and let him know how she feels. for all you know he probably feels the same way about her,
2006-07-04 01:44:52 · answer #9 · answered by Kittie_Nash 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
marry when both of you love each other
2006-07-04 01:50:52 · answer #10 · answered by batinara 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋