I feel very comfortable and at ease with him, but don't want to appear 'easy'. We have had two great, realxing dates so far.
2006-07-04 01:26:37 · 16 answers · asked by kate 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't worry about when you will have sex, just let things happen naturally. For me, the best time is when you are both comfortable enough with each other that you don't need to worry about whether you come across as being easy/ hard to get!!!! This could be the first date, could be the 10th, could be never. Don't let sex dominate your thoughts, just concentrate on getting to the know the person first. Sounds like things are going great though, good luck!
2006-07-04 04:37:34 · answer #1 · answered by sally r 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He won't consider you "easy", if you slept with him after two or three dates. The time when you'll do that with him isn't so important but how you deal with each other. You might feel "easy" with somebody who you waited for a month to sleep with and completelly wonderful after only a couple of dates. The things should be a little bit spontaneous. Enjoy!
2006-07-04 09:39:31 · answer #2 · answered by Psychologist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you don't have to jump straight into sex. You've had two dates already - can we assume you've kissed or at least held hands? Just take it slowly and maybe discuss how you fell about each other. I'm sure he'll see that you're willing but not easy - if you see the difference.
2006-07-04 08:32:52 · answer #3 · answered by ezc692 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't matter how many dates you have, the main thing is that you both feel ready to take it 2 the next level! jus have fun 4 now, i understand that you dnt want to come across 2 strong. get to know each other a little bit more first and be careful
2006-07-04 08:35:40 · answer #4 · answered by charlotte b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The next one would be called the sex date, by some. But, the fact is, you have sex when it is right for you....but he may be expecting it, or a little more this next date.......do as you please, and what you are comfortable with
2006-07-04 08:30:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should waite till u get married because if u waite u get to enjoy ur wife or husband after the reseption and if u dont then after u already enjoyed it that it wont be as enjoying as the first time so waite till marrage
2006-07-04 08:33:52 · answer #6 · answered by Kara 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i see no reason why ne1 shud answer such a foolish question, it doesnt make any sense at all. were all differnt ppl, there isnt a specified number for the question.why not just hav 100 with him n den ull finally know..looser.......
2006-07-04 08:56:27 · answer #7 · answered by fifty's gurl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
as much or as less as they make you feel confortable and at ease. but best till you get married
2006-07-04 08:34:12 · answer #8 · answered by Achimwene 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dates? I prefer figs.
2006-07-04 08:31:01 · answer #9 · answered by fishy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he didn't ask for it on the first date he obviously doesn't like you.
2006-07-04 08:29:35 · answer #10 · answered by SurfCop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋