i am 13 but i want a baby how shall i tell my mum?

Answer 1

U BETTA NOT TELL HER

Answer 2

I WANT a new car, sweetie! But the thing is that I cannot AFFORD it right now. I suppose that I will have to do the only sensible thing and just WAIT until the timing and financial situation is right! So, you think that you want a baby and you are 13. I am a single mother of a 14 yr old daughter and 16 year old son. My husband died 11 years ago. You are still in school, I presume, so you do the math there. I have raised my kids all alone for many years and it is NOT PIECE OF CAKE!!! Babies are not play toys, they are a huge responsibility, cost a lot of money to raise, and their needs HAVE to come before yours until they graduate and leave your house. I have wanted to do many things over the years but that has not been possible due to the responsibilities of raising my children. If you are that keen on having something that loves you unconditionally, get a puppy! They are a lot cheaper in the end and you won't have to put the rest of your life on hold while you raise it.

Answer 3

Listen Sweetheart. I know you are tired of hearing you are too young.BUT Take into consideration... Do you have a full time paying job? Health insurance? A place to call your own? Can you tell your friends,"Sorry I can't go to the mall the baby's' sick" Can you legally get married at 13? Have you graduated High school? Do you still want to have a life? Be a Teenager and do teen things?It's a hard life having a baby at 19 and I wish I would have waited longer. Now my "baby" is making the same hard life choices I had to make,cause he's going to be a dad at 19. He is terrified! No more buddy nights for he and his friends. Don't do it! You will pay dearly being so young. You won't get to be a teenager and experience all the things teens should.

Answer 4

Listen, darling. I am 16 and I want children. I have names picked out, and I know who I want their mother to be. But I won't do anything of the sort until I get married. Once I am married then I will try for my 2 boys and 2 girls.

Darling, you are 13. Your body cannot physically handle a child. If you don't die in the process, you would be emotionally and maybe physically crippled. I ask you as the friend you don't have yet to just refrain from sex until marriage, or at LEAST until you are 18 and physically and mentally mature enough to handle it.

Please do not do anything irrational, honey. You can tell your mother "I want to eventually become a mother. How do you feel about it? Can I get a cat?" Do not tell her you want one RIGHT NOW.

Try this. Strap a ten pound weight around your stomach and lug it around for 3 days. Sleep with it on, shower with it on, eat with it on. Don't take it off. Then tell me you want to carry that around for 9 months.

Everyone wants kids deep down. Some more than others. Some 15 year-olds actually pull it off, and they tear their crotch up, they tear their family up, and they tear their life up. I knew a girl who was 14 and pregnant. She didn't enjoy it.

Darling, what I want you to do is email me. My address is jerrywelch111@yahoo. Please email me...we can talk in more detail.

Don't do anything irrational.

Jerry

Answer 5

Well my friend is 13 and wants a baby ill tell u what i told her waite enjoy being a kid its only once in ur life where u can enjoy doing stuff because when u get older ur gonna want to be a kid again because the baby is gonna be hard work so hun enjoy ur life while u got one

Answer 6

You should wait! Your body is not physically or mentally stable enough to even have sex let alone have a baby. You are just a baby still! The advice I can give to you is to take a baby for the weekend...if you can handle it then talk to you mum but if not then you will know. If you can handle let ME know your secret because I am quite a bit older than you and cannot handle a baby yet. Have you thought of money? Living off welfare simply isn't fair but if you so choose than who am I to stop you. Just have safe sex, BE STI/STD TESTED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!, and Don't be silly, wrap the willy!!!!!!!!!! NO BABIES YET! YOU ARE JUST A BABY YOURSELF!!!!

Answer 7

You are tripping!!! You think you want a baby cause Holly wood makes it look so glamorous when it really isn't.
You are just a baby yourself. You need to finish school so you can have a bright future ahead of you to have a baby. You need to focus on being a kid right now.
You must be on drugs cause to have a baby at 13 is so crazy.
You can't even support yourself right now your parents are.
It cracks me up cause when these teenage girls have kids it is not them who raise them but their parents do. You are just not thinking straight. Relax and chill. I am much older than you and I am not ready for kids.

Answer 8

oh my goodnesss,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,
start off with a "baby turtle"
THEN MAYBE A KITTEN
AND THEN A DOG
AND THEN, BE A BABYSITTER FOR SOMEONE WHO HAS A BABY,,
AND TAKE YOUR TIME,
CHILD, YOU BETTER TELL YOUR MOM WHAT YOU ARE THINKING FAST,

BUT CHILD, YOU ARE A CHILD, IN A BODY THAT MIGHT BE ABLE TO HAVE BABIES, BUT THAT IS JUST NOT ENOUGH

IT IS NOT FAIR TO YOU , OR A BABY FOR YOU TO BE MUM
I KNOW ALL THE WORDS IN THE WORLD WONT CHANGE YOU,

BUT YOU NEED TO REALIZE THIS IS UNREALISTIC, AND YOU ARE NOT MATURE ENOUGH , OR EXPERIENCED, OR OLD ENOUGH TO BE A GOOD MOTHER,

DONT YOU WANT TO BE A GOOD MOTHER?
DO YOU KNOW WHAT A GOOD MOTHER IS?
DO YOU KNOW THAT BABIES ARE SO MUCH WORK, AND THIS WIILL BE FOR THE NEXT EIGHTEEN YEARS,

AND WHAT ABOUT THE FATHER,?
WHERE IS HE COMIING FROM?
IS HE A CHILD ALSO,?
BOYS ARE NOT AS MATURE AS GIRLS, AND I DO NOT THINK YOU COULD HOLD ANY BOYS INTEREST, BABY OR NOT,
WHAT ABOUT FATHERHOOD, ? YOU NEED TO HAVE A FATHER THAT CAN SUPPORT YOU AND YOUR BABY,,

YOUNG LADY,, PLEASE LET THIS FANTASY GO, IF YOU ARE LONELY, OR FEEL THAT YOU NEED A BABY TO LOVE YOU, AND YOU LOVE IT, THEY ARE REAL COMPLICATED, AND THIS WONT BE ENOUGH TO FILL YOUR NEEDS, PLEASE TALK TO PEOPLE, DOCTORS, YOUR FAMILY, AND PRAY FOR YOUR ANSWERS.. YOUR TIME WILL COME BUT NOW IS WAY TOO EARLY,, GOD BLESS AND GOOD LUCK

Answer 9

just tell her but put it to her in a question, How old was your mum when she had her first Child? also try to immagine your life ripped out from under you thats like hsveing to tske care of a baby at 13 live your life you are going through a phase take care of other peoples children that should hold you off and trach you how to parent

Answer 10

You are neither physically, mentally or socially ready for a baby. You are at an age you should enjoy life, and not a responsibility like that. Just the strain on your immature body would contraindicate such a course.

Answer 11

You should have her explain all the reasons why you should NOT have a baby at such an age. Get a dog instead. Kids are too much responsibiliy, especially at 13.