My boyfriend said that he wont go out with me unless I xxx with him. I don't know what to do but I really love him. Tell me with details.
2006-07-04 01:07:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Never let anybdy force you into something you don't want to do. If he is saying you have to do this with him or else he won't go out with you. Then move on he's not worth it. You deserve the respect.....
2006-07-04 01:11:55 · answer #1 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who do you love more, yourself or him?Your body is and should be special to you.You should go out with him if he is put demands on you like that.Dump him.Sex should be the last thing you should be doing or thinking about,especially when you have so many other things you could and should be doing.TELL him NO,NO,NO,NO,NO,and say it loud enough for him to get the picture.You don't need to what to love him that much that you mess up your life by doing something that could change you life for ever.Be smart,do what you need to do to keep yourself pure.
2006-07-04 08:25:45 · answer #2 · answered by Willnotlietoyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wont go out with you unless you have sex with him and your not ready for that commitment yet then he dosent love you like you think he does. He only seems interested in sex. Tell him your not ready for that kind of relationship yet and if he cant wait till you are then tell him to move on and find someone who will respect you and wait till you are....trust me you will find one who will wait
2006-07-04 08:13:14 · answer #3 · answered by Texas_at_its_best 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that is what your boyfriend is asking of you, than he is not a friend. Dump him, and you really can not love someone that does not respect you or demands things from you. Don't change your morals for him...he is not worth it.
2006-07-04 08:11:24 · answer #4 · answered by mettaraine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him. He is just "in love" with you for one thing. If he can't get it, he'll move on to someone else. If he really, truly loved you, he would never pressure you to do anything that you don't want to do.
2006-07-04 08:13:34 · answer #5 · answered by not_prfikt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do what your boyfriend wants you to do. Do what your heart tells you to do. I promise you, you will be doing the right thing.
2006-07-04 08:48:32 · answer #6 · answered by The Shadow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My sweet girl, if he is blackmailing you to sleep with him, tell him to piss off, he is not worth the skin he's in.
2006-07-04 08:14:47 · answer #7 · answered by tracy v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow ur mind & ask urself . These dicisions r risky.
2006-07-04 08:12:58 · answer #8 · answered by Kanie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People who love and care about you don't blackmail you.
Think about it...
2006-07-04 08:14:03 · answer #9 · answered by Aelfgifu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thts a simple blackmail.
2006-07-04 11:08:24 · answer #10 · answered by monte 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋