2006-07-04 00:57:04 · 53 answers · asked by missieclass 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I'm not homophobic in any way just trying to find out what others think. I think same sex couples should be allowed to adopt if they are in a loving, solid relationship the same as any other couples.
2006-07-04 01:03:57 · update #1
I used to think it was wrong - confusing for the child and all that, but growing up I realize that there are many 'bad' parents out there (you only have to read the papers!) or unhappy families. If a couple can offer a child love and a decent upbringing then it shouldn't matter whether they are same sex or not!
2006-07-04 01:04:21 · answer #1 · answered by Me 5 · 12⤊ 4⤋
it interests me that you've asked this question as I'm gay and one day this is the path I'll take to have a family. when i was younger i always said I'd never do it because it wouldn't be fair on the child but as I've grown up the society opinion has changed a great deal and I'm also not as closed minded. Adoption is not taken lightly by anyone especially the officials and would not be considered if the home wasn't stable and in loving surroundings so i believe no matter what sex or sexual orientation you are those kids deserve a chance
2006-07-04 01:22:21 · answer #2 · answered by Rhea C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely yes. Most paedophiles are NOT homosexual in the accepted sense, and if the 2 people involved are in a stable relationship why not. Personally I think it is far more damaging to leave children in an institution such as an orphanage where abuse is far more likely to occur, or with abusive 'normal' couples. There are so many unwanted children out there, why shouldn't we give them the chance to be shown some love, no matter where it comes from.
Now don't start me off on the whole IVF for older people thing.
2006-07-04 01:14:47 · answer #3 · answered by fishy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are many children in the world who have abusive and irresponsible parents. For a gay or lesbian couple to take the time to adopt a child and pay the money it is saying something about how badly they want a child. Gay and lesbian couples should definately be able to adopt children and there are quite a few who would be better parents then some of the people that are parenting now.
2006-07-04 01:04:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you ask 100 people this question, you are sure to get 100 different variations of the same 2 answers YES or NO. The choice is eventually going to have to be yours. If you feel it is right then no matter what anyone thinks, you are right. If same-sex adoption is legal where you live then the elected officials you voted for have made that decision for you already.
2006-07-04 01:04:47 · answer #5 · answered by meansawbean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i feel a child should benefit from values that a mother and a father (male & female) can give them - nothing against homosexuals but i think if they decied that are gay thats kids are not an option for the couple. Any child brought up by a same sex couple will be confused and treated differently at school and in social circles and this isnt fair on them .
bloody good question !
2006-07-04 01:02:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely! As long as they are in a stable, loving relationship and they meet all the criteria expected of heterosexual couples, there is no reason not to. And for all these people who are worried about the child "turning" gay, if being raised by a gay couple is what does it, then how did we end up with all these gay people who were raised by heterosexual parents? I have several gay friends whose families actually disowned them because of being gay, so you can't tell me that gay people only come from gay families, or even accepting families. If anything, I think that being adopted by a gay couple would be good for the kid, because it would help teach him or her tolerance and hopefully make him or her a more open-minded person.
2006-07-04 01:52:31 · answer #7 · answered by bio.nelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i do there are lots of answers saying the kid will get teased, what kid doesn't now a days as long as the couple love, care and provide well for the child why not. there is no such thing as a normal family these days. every family whatever they consist of are gonna face some problems about the way they live at some point
2006-07-04 01:20:00 · answer #8 · answered by Scottish lass 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being able to adopt should be about how you would look after the child not about your sexuality. You could have a straight couple who abuse the child. As long as the child is safe that is the main priority.
2006-07-04 01:42:08 · answer #9 · answered by NJAS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I dont think it'd be the best thing to do , for the kids sake.
Please note im not a homosexual hater, just dont think its the best place for a kid to grow up cause you need to have a daddy and a mommy in the physical form. Even single parents find that their kids not havng grown up with both parents experience some problems on a socio economic level.
2006-07-04 01:03:40 · answer #10 · answered by cindz_jess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but you have to be realistic whether it's fair or nor society set up alot of 'extra' hurdles. That's not to say that you can not get over these if you persevere. However you have to think about the child and not only the questions it will need answering, but also those of it's peers. So, the simple answer is YES of course it's okay, but be prepared and be willing to spend extra time with your child to help weather the storm.
2006-07-04 01:03:36 · answer #11 · answered by waggy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋