one of my friend was in a relation with a guy. she loved him a lottttt. but now everything got over. they've broke up for ever now she hates him as much as she liked him once. but still she feels very depressed. is there a way where i can help her.
2006-07-04 00:28:29 · 13 answers · asked by sandy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just be there for her if she needs you. Hating him & being depressed are part of the natural grieving process, & she will need time to heal enough to accept the end of her relationship. Listen if she needs to vent, give her a shoulder if she needs to cry, & be her friend. Eventually, the pain will pass, she will learn from the experience, & may realize she is better off without this guy. A year from now, she may be dating someone else & not even worry about the ex-boyfriend. From one who has been there, both in the support role & the dumped role, good luck.
2006-07-04 00:38:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ben & Jerry's ice cream often helps a broken heart. :)
All joking aside, just be there to let her cry on your shoulder. Getting over a relationship takes time. If it has been months however since the breakup and she is still crying all the time, she needs professional help as she could be truly depressed instead of just being down in the dumps because she was so much in love. She may need to go see a psychologist or a psychiatrist who will help her get on with her life and realize that there is someone else out there for her to love.
2006-07-04 07:34:50 · answer #2 · answered by Andrea F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the "How can boys do this" part in ur problem?
Ok, ur friend may feel that the guy "did" it "to" her, but at least, u need to think straight!!
If u want to help her, 1st start thinking rationally.
1. let her grieve.
Acknowledge that her loss is real.
Break-ups happen. & they make one depressed. But at a point of time, u need to shake it off, & catch on with ur life.
2. Get her to get interested & involved, in not a person, but an activity.
That'll be more difficult if she doesn;'t have a hobby.
3. Encourage her to meet other guys normally. Ask her to exercise caution, but not feel insecure or cheated by the entire male group
Good Luck
2006-07-04 07:30:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all make your friend realise that there is nothing wrong with her that even after breaking up,she is thinking of the guy or hating him.It's understandable.She needs to meet some other guy whom she can relate to and slowly she will forget this guy.It's like this with every girl.females take time to get over a relationship while men are able to do so more quickly.you need to introduce her to some more people and make her realise that her ex boyfriend wasn't worth her
2006-07-04 07:33:39 · answer #4 · answered by sammy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As the old saying goes...time heals all wounds. It's true. Just give your friend all the support you can.
2006-07-04 07:41:01 · answer #5 · answered by bookfreak2day 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Takes time just be there for her she will get over it
2006-07-04 07:31:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be there for her..help her forget her relation by doing things she likes...being single is not a bad thing...
all the best!
2006-07-04 07:37:02 · answer #7 · answered by nadhace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell Jokes, play pranks, Just make her laugh!
2006-07-04 07:32:06 · answer #8 · answered by mdwhitford 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first what did he do? if she loved him sooooo muuuuch why all the hate? women need to chill
2006-07-04 07:30:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well tell her to move on thats the best way
2006-07-04 07:30:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋