How do I resolve a quarrel?

Question

I have fallen out with my sister and I live with her but we haven't been talking for about four weeks now. What should i do?

Answer 1

IT IS ALWAYS GOOD TO RECOGNIZE FIRST WHAT HAPPENED BETWEEN YOU AND YOUR SISTER. THEN discover who first offended who. If you were the one then it is better to ask forgiveness from your sister. If it was she who startedt the problem then you can still initiate to resolve the conflict by going to her and tell her how you were hurt by her and that you want to have a good relationship with her again by forgiving her.

Answer 2

Well, remember that she is blood. That is your sister. If it was a good friend what would you do? I have a sister that is a controlling drama queen, and she boils my blood on a regular basis...but I realize how we grew up together and i love her dearly. Sure, I would like to smack the poo out of her thick head, but if something ever happened to my big sis, id probably regret even mentioning this. and, if someone was to harm her, I would track that person down and pull their fingernails off and put salt and alcohol on the open wounds. I Love my sister, That doesn't mean I have to like what she says or does. But, family.......you have to be able to be there for them.....they would be there for you...at least most. But, alas, not enough information on the situation. Hope this helped some.

Answer 3

Quarrel sounds so much better than a fight or an argument!
So sad to hear this
It is easy for me to say this than it might be for you to do
But I would say "I'm sorry for this quarrel that we had"
I wouldn't even mention what it is about just hug her, try to
appreciate having a sister. I don't have any family
Be the bigger person forget it hold each other

Answer 4

According to statistics, the 2 hardest words to say in any language is, "I'm sorry." Don't add to that statistic, make up with your sister, don't let a disagreement come between you two. One of these days you may need her and vice versa and you and her should always be there for one another.

Answer 5

That totally depends on what the disagrement is about...and waht events have transpired regarding this issue since the time that it started.

You need to revise your questions and include these details to expect to get a meaningful answer.

:-)

Answer 6

First you need to make a choice:

You can be right, or you can fix it.

There is NO middle ground on that one.

If you decide to fix it, go from there. No bringing up the past, and no accusations EVEN if she does it to you. Cop to them, even if they're ridiculous, she'll eventually realize you're being sarcastic.

Answer 7

Break the ice. No one should go to bed mad at anyone....you never know what could happen tomorrow. Family is family, she may be waiting for you to talk.....take the high road and show the love.

Answer 8

Sure, the easiest way is to be nice to her until she thaws. My sister and I fight constantly. I find a simple, "hey Im sorry I was a jerk" helps clear the air right away....(even if I wasn't a jerk).

Answer 9

Be the one to break the ice. Say you are sorry. I'm sure she is too. The smallest spats can cause the worst problems. Don't let another minute pass....do it now.

Answer 10

PRETEND YOU ARE VISITING HER AT A MORTUARY, SHE IS IN A COFFIN, WHAT WOULD YOU WANT TO SAY?

and why?

AND THEN REJOICE, SHE IS NOT IN THE MORTUARY, SHE IS THERE, FORGET PRIDE, YOU CANT "EAT IT" "WEAR IT" or "SCREW IT"

IT DOES NOT MATTER WHAT THE FIGHT, WHO IS RIGHT, IF YOU LOVE HER, TELL HER YOU ARE SORRY FOR HURTING HER AND UPSETTING HER, (THAT IS NOT ADMITTING GUILT OR IT WAS YOUR FAULT) YOU ARE SORRY FOR YOUR PART IN THE FALLING OUT

NOW HURRY UP,, WHILE YOU CAN.. GO TELL HER YOU LOVE HER,