For my whole life I've had this strong attraction towards guys and the thought of me being gay kept on being brought up. Throughout my life I always shouved the title gay at the back of my mind until now. After admitting to myself that I'm gay, now I'm very confused. I do show little attraction to girls but it's very weak. I don't know what to do. This whole confusion thing is driving me crazy.
2006-07-03 12:26:34 · 14 answers · asked by brucy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I did some more thinking about my feelings and a funny thing popped in my mind. For most of my life I wanted to start a relationship with a girl even thought I paid a little attion to them and paid a lot attion to guys. I still feel very confused. I feel so confused that my mind is not working the way it use to before I brought up the gay lable.
2006-07-04 04:51:21 · update #1
Here is something for you to think about. Is a Zebra white with black stripes or black with white stripes? Does it really matter to the Zebra, he's still a Zebra right. You are a person, stop trying to put a label on yourself. If you find someone that you can share your life with, that's what matters. Not who they are but what they mean to you and how you feel when you are with them. Stop complicating your life, your missing out on living. You are who you are, like the Zebra, it doesn't matter to him and it should'nt matter to you. Stop thinking about it and be who you are, with who ever you choose to love. Good Luck
2006-07-15 02:32:49 · answer #1 · answered by davidjudyrices 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Have sex with a very sexy girl and see how you feel. If U still find guys attractive after that then U gotta be gay.
2006-07-03 12:32:45 · answer #2 · answered by beezebee25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many people are attracted to both sexes on some level. If I were you I would just let it go and see who you end up with. There's no reason that you can't love whoever you choose to love.
2006-07-03 12:31:00 · answer #3 · answered by sunshineandsilliness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you keep 1 thing in your mind that you are a guy and then think about sex and make yourself perfect for sex.
2006-07-13 20:30:34 · answer #4 · answered by Public Demand 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK...um ...wow...what to say....what to say...um have sex with a girl and come back tell me if you are still confused. as 4 me I'm straight but you are very confused. this reminds me of broke back mountain. I have nothin against gays.
2006-07-03 12:36:47 · answer #5 · answered by Guess who 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you like show tunes? Do like to shop for shoes? Do you say "fabulous"? If you said yes to any of these, you are gay.
2006-07-03 12:34:17 · answer #6 · answered by Alan J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say try having sex with one of each and then decide......its the only way to know for sure!
2006-07-14 15:03:14 · answer #7 · answered by Karie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So where is the confusion. I think you need to embrace the outcome.
2006-07-10 14:05:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could be bi. But don't stress, just be who you are. If you like dudes don't be ashamed just do it. You can't help who you are. enjoy life and don't let anyone get you down. :)
2006-07-03 12:33:30 · answer #9 · answered by Mz.H 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go see a doctor, you need medical checkup.
2006-07-03 12:31:47 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋