im 19 and me and boyf have been together 2 years, and we talk a lot about having babies, i say what theyre names are gonna be etc. its kind of in a jokey was but its reallu nice to talk about it anyway, and i love having a boyfriend who doesnt go ahhhhhh crazy woman!!!
do you talk to your other half about this, even if you are young and havent been together very long?
2006-07-03 07:36:48 · 10 answers · asked by jungle bunny 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
to all the people who assumed that i wanted to have kids now - thats not my plan i just think its nice to talk about it. and i am old enough to drink in u.k, not in crazy america!
2006-07-06 00:30:50 · update #1
use to do that when i was a bit younger. always nice to think of the what if. helps out alot to find out commited you are to one another. even if you have no plans to have a kid anytime soon, its nice to know the other person would think about having one with ya.
2006-07-03 07:40:34 · answer #1 · answered by serenity975428 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are young. Very young. Too young to be thinking about babies. I think its great you two can talk openly to each other, but if you are thinking of having children now..try to reconsider. If only I had someone tell me that when I was 19. I love my son, but I wish I would have had him when I was say 25. Date. Have fun. Be together. But don't marry yet and don't have children til you both are at the very least 21. Thing change when you or one of you are old enough to drink. I'm happy for you that you and your BF have a open relationship where anything goes as far as conversation, but honey please...do not have children yet..just talk about it. You may think you are ready, but you are far too young yet.
2006-07-03 14:52:04 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well..Thats Nice Ya Both Talk About That But,I Think Its Better To Have Kids Only When You Married!!!Like Me Yea Me N My Husband We Talk About IT!!!
2006-07-03 14:40:23 · answer #3 · answered by ❀Mother Of 2❀ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah me and my boyf talk about having lots of kids, we have a 2 and a half yr old little girl together, we are planning on having another one some time in the near future!
2006-07-03 14:48:18 · answer #4 · answered by renae8003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We do talk about it, I think it's important to discuss these things before you get married. That way there is no big suprise after the wedding, he wants kids you hate them, etc...
2006-07-03 14:54:11 · answer #5 · answered by oregonerin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
me and my husband talk about the names and how many kids we want and what we want and stuff like that. but i never talked about it with any of my bf's. never had sex till i was married and now i am 21 married and have 2 kids
2006-07-03 14:42:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me and my husband talk about the names of other children that we may have one day. It is just a neat topic.
2006-07-03 14:40:15 · answer #7 · answered by RainCloud 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, until recently i became pregnant, and that changed the whole scene.
2006-07-03 15:23:09 · answer #8 · answered by Miss Taryn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In all seriousness, I think your bf is gay. Either that or he really wants kids.
2006-07-03 14:40:40 · answer #9 · answered by brass 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure, some guys do. but not all.
2006-07-03 14:44:56 · answer #10 · answered by houndofhell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋