I am a good man but ....?

Question

I am 53, body of a healthy 30 year old, looks of a good 40 year old, kind and considerate to all, I am tall dark and hansome as is the requirements. I communicate well, enjoy the arts and love to share the interests of others. I have a lot of love to give and am stable and reliable yet I am alone. So I am healthy, wealthy and wise yet i am alone. Where am I going wrong?

Answer 1

hmmm... maybe you have high expectations for you perfect lady (which is fine) but your maybe not visiting the right places, go for drinks/meals with your male friends to the nice places and meet some pretty ladies xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Good Luck xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Answer 2

There is such thing as fate, sir.And as for me, if that right person hasn't come yet then we can do nothing about it.Different people have different fate, and we all have different destiny in life. God has a plan for each one of us.I'll set myself as an example.I am a too good to be true kind of girl they say. I'm too straight, my moral values are high, i don't have a knack on any vices, not even shopping,smoking,drinking nor drugs.I look good, i have brains, i'm independent and i don't ask money on anybody yet i still ended up and loved the wrong guy, the father of 3 lil girls. He's the worst guy ever, he beat me, he's on drugs, smoking, drinking, vices, WOMEN and he doesn't give anything or any support on us, nfortunately i don't have a job right now. But i am still living with him because i do unconditionally love him and my kids love him too. But, take not, i'm just 26 and we haven't been married yet even if it's almost 7 years. so cheer up because there's someone out there just for you...On the second thought, if you are really desperate to have someone, try Blind Date on TV...(Joke!)

Answer 3

I am the same but I think when you get older you know what you're looking for and when I think about it, I have had a lot of male interest, but I will know if someone is right now.

I think, mainly, you would meet someone through someone you already know,... and don't bother with pubs and clubs, you'll never meet anyone there. Young people take people on face value and as we mature we begin to realise that that is not such a good thing. Experience tells us that people are not what they seem on face value, mostly.

I've been told to go to college to learn somethig that interests me. That way you get to see the same people every week and get to know them and they have similar interests to you. Either you will meet new friends and eventually meet people through them, or you will meet someone special? I'll give it a try maybe, why don't you?

Answer 4

That is strange. I have no idea why you are still single, apart from as they say if you look you don't find. Perhaps your trying to sell yourself too much. Or perhaps your not doing enough chasing so many people are shy, people might not want to look stupid by asking you out, through fear of rejection.

You need to ask your friends to answer truthfully and ask them what might be holding you back. your not allowed to be upset with the answers you get.

Also your requirements may be too high, remember looking young and beautiful are not the most important things in life.

Answer 5

just hang in there. sometimes when we are searching our hardest, we don't see what's right around us. women will scoop you up when they discover you. you sound like a great guy to have for a partner. everyone knows when they've found a keeper! just be confident in yourself and get out there....confidence is an attractive quality and remember that most women won't make the first move...so you may have to do it. just be yourself. why not check out yahoo personals? i know a couple that met online and they've been married for i think 10 years now. it's a good way to meet a lot of people in today's world of computers!
my dad, who is older than you found love when he was least expecting it. he just got remarried earlier this year. it happens....and it will for you too. anyway, good luck.

Answer 6

This is the best suggestion I can come up with.
If U have the money & the time, enroll in some night-classes of interest 2 U & C if the right woman comes along.

Answer 7

Tim. Im sorry but you were after my Gary that means either you are gay or just wanted to hurt me. Gary isnt gay. Ive known him for almost a year!!!! You will meet someone nice soon just relax and say nice things to a woman and she will fall for you hook line and sinker. Do you make adverse comments to a woman making her feel that she isnt as intelligent as you? Many men have that superiorituy complex which puts women off.Even if you think you are superior to her keep it to yourself. Make her feel good and she will come to you with an open heart.

Answer 8

same question i had on myself. maybe you're meticulous or choosy when looking for a partner. maybe you're setting some standards. but if this is not the case then, i think there's nothing wrong w/ u. maybe the right person for you hasn't come yet. don't go out looking her. just enjoy life, have fun. she'll come at the right time.........or maybe she already exists & you're just too busy looking for her that u hardly even notice she's right infront of your doorstep.

Answer 9

I think your main fallback is asking people on the internet for advice.

Anyone your age should know how to get a woman. There are people alot younger and uglier than your description that are in happy, fulfillng relationships.

Answer 10

are you a very social person a great personality that shows will attract women more than someone who is shy try just walkin up to someone you like and asking them out be ballsy and dont care if they turn you down see if friends can hook you up on blind dates. go bowling or other social places not to a bar