What is your opinion and thinking about a 29 years old guy, who is clever, educated, handsome, respectful and honest, but he has not married and he is virgin and hasn't had sexual relation yet ?
2006-07-01 22:40:22 · 26 answers · asked by ton_rimas 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thank you for your good answers, i found most of them honestly and as i know this guy, he is a person with great personality that so many girls wanted to have relation with him but he has no attention to undesirable relations.
2006-07-02 21:54:54 · update #1
A man who is showing true respect for his future wife by waiting and that truely lives up to the description you provided.
2006-07-01 23:19:32 · answer #1 · answered by a soldier's dolphin 2 · 14⤊ 7⤋
I think he just needs to get over the hump--no pun intended! I was 31 when I lost my virginity, though I did have some sexual relations with a girlfriend (but no penetration) and "heavy petting" with a friend before that. Now I've had sex with three more girlfriends and a friend after "getting over the hump." Incidentally I did not lose my viginity to a girlfriend: she was the friend I just mentioned (who was about 11 years younger than me); she wanted to "show me" how to do it. So, regarding your 29-y.o. guy, give him time. I think he's all right. Some guys are just shy with girls--like I used to be. I was one of the shyest guys in high school and even in my early college years--but it didn't mean I didn't want to have sex. I took seven years off college, and when I returned, it was in the UCLA co-op where I finally lost my virginity.
For some reason I've never "done it" within my own ethnic group. The first girlfriend I had was Hispanic, like me, but she was a Jehova's Witness, so she would only let me "dry-hump" her (no penetration; would not give oral sex, though she did like me to give it to her); so we did almost everything else short of sex per se. The next girlfriend was also Mexican, from a small village near Monterrey, Mexico; so when I went out with her I had to take out her cousins or her sister too: we couldn't be alone together. So nothing ever happened there. The girl who "showed me" how to have sex was from India, though raised in the US. The next (and best at it) was the Japanese girlfriend: she rocked my world and made sushi out of me. The Korean girlfriend was pretty good too. And finally I had a Taiwanese girlfriend who was just learning to have sex: so I had to be the "coach." In short, your friend just needs someone to "get him rolling," then he'll be a sex machine...er, I mean, are you interested in him? If so, he'll be doing it with you only, of course. =)
2006-07-02 06:26:43 · answer #2 · answered by ♣Tascalcoán♣ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If all you say is true about him, maybe he just has very high moral standards. Or strongly adheres to a religion. You might slight him on religion(seems many choose that as a deal breaker)but if it were not, should you really knock him because he is not some sleazy thuggish man whore dipping his wick everywhere? I say you best get to know him and maybe you might be the one to 1st have him park the car in the garage. Some would say weird. But when did one become weird just because they have not fornicating like the rest of us?
2006-07-02 06:12:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well , i would say he is 1 in 100 but are u 100 percent sure & beleive about what u stated about him bez in this century it's very rare 2 see this kind of guy!
2006-07-02 05:44:21 · answer #4 · answered by Dolly_06 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
on the face of it, he seems relatively normal. It is possible that he has some social interaction deficits, he may not like hanging out in social crowds. He may also be very particular, it is possible he has not met a girl he finds attractive and she finds him attractive. He may have a strong religious background.
2006-07-02 05:46:40 · answer #5 · answered by cehelp 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm thinking is he a virgin because he is saving himself for the right women or becuase he has never been close enough to a women
2006-07-02 05:43:12 · answer #6 · answered by Kirsty J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's waiting for the right girl maybe he's waiting for you and my opinion he's a good catch because he doesn't have any sexual experiences yet you can teach him everynight
2006-07-02 05:58:11 · answer #7 · answered by Samantha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is the problem, because he is virgin? That is not a problem, there are so many virgins old like him. So if he is OK in the head, he is OK.
2006-07-02 05:48:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its ok. you are perfect just the way you are.virgin or not. anyway, when the right one comes along, you will know what to do even if you havent done it. its a basic instinct. so relax friend, virgins are cool people.
2006-07-02 05:52:09 · answer #9 · answered by luvdoctor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if it was your choice than ok you can wait all your life lol, but if you want to get laid you should try too, go out meet women and try to advance to physical level ,if you dont advance it might never happen unless she will make the first move
2006-07-02 05:47:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you know what they say, the perfect man is usually gay...and when I say perfect, I don't mean it literally cus nobody's perfect but you know what I mean!!
2006-07-02 05:47:40 · answer #11 · answered by ♥Ms. Heart♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋