you were chubby but didnt pay attention to you then only wanted to be friends, but likes you now that you have lost alota weight. what would you do? how would you feel? personally I feel uncomfortable going out with him
2006-07-01 21:42:56 · 11 answers · asked by Star 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't do it because he could'nt accept you then he cant have you know dont degrade yourself he just wanted to be friends so just be friends. i hate that one minute they ignore you for years then when you get fine or lose a massive amount of weight all of a sudden you want me.
2006-07-01 21:54:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was in the same situation and still am but with other people. People should want to go out with you because of the way you are not your looks. Obviously he's an A$$. I let him get almost to the realtionship commitment part and then let him know what it's like to be $hit on. I know it's a game but he deserved it!!!
2006-07-01 21:50:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel uncomfortable then dont go out with him. He is obviously shallow and if he didnt see how great you were before then that means he only likes you for your looks. You can do better!
2006-07-01 21:48:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on girls, attraction is a major part of a relationship. Admit it! It’s the same with guys too and nothing to be ashamed about. You know that pair of shoes sitting in the back of the closet? You know, the ones you haven’t had on in months. Did you buy them because they were cute or because they made your feet hurt?
Maybe he sees you are in control of your life now and that is what makes you attractive.
2006-07-02 05:35:20 · answer #4 · answered by Wile E. Chipotle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he didn't pay attention to you y are you going out with him now? you feel uncomfortable because deep down you know it's wrong.
2006-07-01 21:47:22 · answer #5 · answered by JOhNe=mc² 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're right. He is the person who would go out with you and then brag at his friends about it. He's not worth any attention.
2006-07-01 21:48:42 · answer #6 · answered by Bigfoot 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know... that's a tough question because who can blame him. I'd give it a try but be apprehensive. Part of liking someone is to be attracted to them... and for that reason... I'm not sure I'd completely hold it against him.
2006-07-01 21:47:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, its not fair....he wants to be with u cause u lost weight and look "good " now which means hes using you
2006-07-01 21:46:21 · answer #8 · answered by kiss2envy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he obviously likes u for your looks. u should go out with someone who doesn't only go out with skinny ppl!
2006-07-01 21:46:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get to know him, and dump him if things turn out wrong.
2006-07-01 21:46:25 · answer #10 · answered by Freezerburn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋