I would like to know if i'm wrong for being angry at my Bro's girlfriend. We gave him a surprise party she was 2 hours late, never helped serve the guests or clean up afterwards. Yet, while im trying to tidy up she's walking thru the trash I swept and bitching about some paper products that she purchased for the party. Said she wanted her stuff back so she could return it because it was never used!! I thought that was very tacky and she was also trying to take as much food with her as she could but she never purchased anything! Am I wrong for being angry?? I thought the party was about him not her getting what she wants. I also thought that when u bring something to someones home for a party, u leave it behind regardless if its used or not..Plz tell me if I'm wrong!!
2006-07-01 20:11:31 · 19 answers · asked by cashmere3636 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I think you definitely have a right to feel irked about her behaviour.. Maybe she won't be on the scene for very long any way, so I know it will be hard but just tolerate her. If you say anything it will sound like sour grapes, so just for your brother for the time being let it go..
2006-07-01 20:21:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Unless she lives in the same home where the party took place I don't believe she should have been expected to help serve guests or clean up after... she was/is wrong to have asked for her contributions back if she was a guest... and it is a little tacky to take a lot of food home.
2006-07-01 20:19:06 · answer #2 · answered by zzz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hardly think your wrong. She sounds so selfish and rude. Ive been with my guy for two years and even when we started dating and his sister had a birthday party i was there the night before blowing up balloons and helping cook food and buy items etc. Simple if its a party like this she should have the common sense to help out. Its 'normal' to do so. Ifeel she needs a stirn talking too or she wont change, unless its in her nature to be so rude., You really need to nip her into shape before its to late. Actually i feel its not up to you you should sit your bro down and chat with him and see what he thinks of her rudeness and y it bothers you.
2006-07-01 20:19:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.. From your side of the story, you bro's gf sounds bitchy. She has been portrayed as the villain here. If wat you are saying is from a neutral point of view, she's obviously wrong.
And for the party things, geez.. anyway it's her money. She bought the stuff. SO if she wants them back, you have no say. And there's no right or wrong for her to want her things back. But you usually leave them behind because it's a good etiquette.
2006-07-01 20:18:31 · answer #4 · answered by Jasmine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right, she is selfish and uncondsiderate. anything you bring to the party should stay, unless the host of the party offers it back to them. it is rude to come to a party empty handed and not help with the party. she only thinking for herself.
2006-07-01 23:03:03 · answer #5 · answered by Giggles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gee- I sure hope she doesn't become your sister-in-law. I'm wondering how she really could be behind closed doors if she's like this at the surface. Talk to her about it but I definetly don't think you're wrong. If she doesn't listen tell your brother, he may be able to convince her to change her ways.
2006-07-01 20:16:48 · answer #6 · answered by ♪ Tony's girl ♪ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't wrong at all.If anything-SHE should've been the one to help the MOST with the party,being that shes his girlfriend.Just hearing about the story makes me mad at her.She sounds selfish.And that is very rude that she wanted to return her 1 item back...kind of ghetto .
2006-07-01 20:19:16 · answer #7 · answered by Jen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If something isn't used than you should be able to bring it home with you. It sounds like it was her attitude that was tacky and she didn't need to behave like that. Offering to help isn't mandatory but it would have been polite. You also don't grab food to take home with you if it wasn't offered to you.
2006-07-01 20:15:26 · answer #8 · answered by double v 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have EVERY right to be upset. She's his girlfriend, if she really wants to impress the family, she would be doing everything in her nature to get on your goodside. She should have been in there helping like nothing else! I hate girls like that.
2006-07-01 20:17:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
AW!!!!! You are not wrong sweetie!
Shes a ***** for sure! Have a talk with your brother about this!
Cut the crap right at the moment!
2006-07-01 20:16:55 · answer #10 · answered by Hotfreak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋