is it wrong to date a 20 year old when your 15?

Answer 1

When I was fifteen years old, I pursued a young woman who was twenty years old at that time. It was a lot of effort on my part due to the fact that while she was an architectural student at a college near where I lived, I was still enrolled in high school. This relationship lasted until I was twenty and somewhat forced me to grow up at an accelerated rate so that I could be with her. Not only did I learn much about life, but I graduated high school at 16 and at that time was also in my junior year at the same college. Although it ultimately didn't work out, I would not trade that experience for anything. To answer your question, it worked out great for me, she was happy as well. However, I am a male and I am not sure how such a situation would play out if the roles were reversed. Yet, with all social matters, I suppose it ultimately depends on the people involved and how it works for them. Right and Wrong are subjective, except in the eyes of the law in some states, of course.

Answer 2

Put it this way... a 20 year old dating a 15 year old.... this 20 year old is dating someone who is still a child.Think about it this way if u decide to be together forever fine great.... But if he is willing to do things to a child. What happens later down the road when the 2 of u have kids? Can u be sure he won't hurt ur children...I mean after all he went for u as a CHILD. emphasis on the word child here. Would u like to find out ur "husband" did things to ur child? There is no differences a pedophile is a pedophile no matter what u want to call him

Answer 3

At your ages the five years' difference is significant.
Most 20 year olds have their minds somewhere far beyond what 15 year olds are thinking about and the 15 year old deserves the experience of being a teenager, which is very different than having the responsibilites (and rights) of a young adult.

Waiting a few years and then dating would be much smarter.
But smarter isn't usually what 15 year olds are interested in.

Good luck. I hope you make a sensible decision.

Answer 4

God yes. I know mathematically there isn't a huge difference but in terms of life the gap is immense.

There is something completely wrong with a 20 year old if they are dating a 15 year old.

Answer 5

15 will get you 20 if u are over 18 so unfortunate as it may seem yes it is wrong. Cause even now if the minor or the parents do not wanna prosecute if it is found out about the state will come after you. It is called statutory rape look it up. I dont care how mature the minor is please use ur senses.

Answer 6

OH MY GOD YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

THAT IS A 5 YEAR AGE DIFFERENCE.
THERE SHOULD BE NO REASON 4 A 15 YR OLD TO BE WITH A 20 YR OLD.
THE TWO AREN'T EVEN MENTALLY COMPATIBLE.
THE ONLY THING A 20 YR OLD WOULD WANT FROM A 15YR OLD IS SEX AND BECAUSE THEY'RE(THE 15 YR OLD)IS SO YOUNG,THE 20 YEAR OLD SEES THAT HE OR SHE CAN HAVE MIND CONTROL OF THE 15YR OLD.

THINK ABOUT IT.
WHAT DOES A 15 YR OLD KNOW ABOUT LIFE?
NOT A WHOLE LOT AND THE 20 YR OLD COULD USE AND MANIPULATE THE 15 YR OLD.


NONONONONONONONONONONONONONONO!
BIG MISTAKE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 7

Yes, it is wrong. When the 20 years old have sex with a 15 years old, it is call rape.

Answer 8

Im sorry to tell you but you arent really dating him. he is using you. I hope the two of you arent having sex because if you are thats a problem. woman tend to use sex for a stronger bond when men use it to satisfy their own needs. not every man is like that dont get me wrong he might like you but I doubt he will respect you. younger teens tend to want to grow up faster than necessary. the world isnt going any where anytime soon you have your whole life ahead of you and usual the older they are the more they want to control your every move. you need to stay in your age group and find your own identity he will try to mold you into who he wants you to be and before you know it years might go by and you realize you could have done so much.

ask him why he isnt dating someone his own age. he might tell you something like cause theyre not you or they think they all that even though it seems cool and hes cute and your friends will be like wow thats your boyfriend...dont do it.

I dated a 31 yr old when I was 17 I was so mature for my age but all he wanted to do was have sex with me and Im so glad that I didnt. I just wanted someone who was on my level to spend time with but he just wanted something else.

If you need some advice contact me I cant type everything here. you can email me personally or we can talk over the phone. Im taking this seriously because I have seen so much that if I can help you in your time of need I will be glad to do so

Answer 9

Is he giving it to you good? Getting all up in them guts? Do you have a big butt? Is he doing it like a porn star? Is he hitting from the back like crazy? Is your titties swinging all over the place? Is their a sex smell in the air due to long hours of sex? Do the dogs howl outside on your porch? Are the cops knocking? Is the fat lady singing? Are you making more sounds than a little boy with a new set of drums?

Answer 10

Very wrong!! I'm thinking your 15 and female and he's 20 and male. Stay away!!!!!! You're too young to sort out your feelings and he's too old to keep down his hormones! You'll be prego. before ya know it and he'll be moving on without you! Concentrate on school and what ya want to do afterwards. College etc.!!!!!!!!!!