I am 19 years old and have been with my boyfriend for almost six years. We have lived together for the last two years. I really do love him. Sometimes I wonder though if I stay with him and eventually start a family with him, will I regret never dating anyone else? I dont know what would be worse... breaking it off with him and realizing that I lost the love of my life or staying with him and never knowing if what's out there was something better. All I want is to be happy and honestly I don't know which path in life would make me happier. What would you do in this situation?
2006-07-01 19:46:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Age does not mean a thing if you are in love. You should stay with someone that you know will love you and take care of you for the rest of your life. If for some reason you do break it off and try to test your feelings with someone else, he should support you and understand you. Listen to your heart and no one else. Your feelings are your path to life. Personally, if I had doubts about making a very important decision in my life, I would listen to my doubts and my feelings. Think it over, and i wish you the best.
2006-07-01 19:59:20 · answer #1 · answered by TEXAS COWGIRL 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That depends on you and him hun, but mostly you. Don't let ppl get you down that say " Oh but you're too young! " You know what you honestly want in your heart. I don't think 19 is too young...I got married at 15 and have been married for almost 6 yrs. now, and together for 7. I have a 5 yr. old child, a 3 yr. old child, and a 4 1/2 mo. old child. I am so happy I would not change anything, because they are my life, and the center of my existance. My husband and I have our conflicts once in awhile, but I don't think there is such a thing as a "perfect" marriage, or a perfect boyfriend/girlfriend for that matter. You've got to do what will make you happy, and sorry to say, you and you only. Your own happiness is what matters. If you don't, you will kick yourself. Good luck hun, and may you find happiness and prosperity in whatever you choose.
2006-07-02 02:57:25 · answer #2 · answered by sherbear8521 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry honey no one can really answer that but you. i was 16 when i met my husband and after 5 years we got married. we've been together for 12 years altogether now but the same thoughts crossed both of our minds. we committed really young too. we have a family now. if you want to stay together that's fine....but talk to him about how he feels too. in my opinion, wait to get married. don't get married just b/c you've been together so long...if there's no harm in waiting, then just wait. the only reason my husband and i got married when we did was b/c he joined the military but if not we both agreed we would have waited a little longer. there was no rush you know? it didn't mean we didn't love eachother, it just meant that we were gonna take things slow, that's all. give yourselves time to find out who you really are, time to grow up a little more......and talk to eachother and be honest. if you wanna chat more email me. :)
2006-07-02 07:05:39 · answer #3 · answered by origchick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do believe you`ve answered the question yourself.If you love him then no it isnt.If you have any doubts then yes it is.So it seems you`ve answered it already ,good luck and hang in there even when things get tough it only makes you stronger.
2006-07-02 03:19:39 · answer #4 · answered by do_u_pookie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you've spent six years of your life with him it must be pretty serious...but just the fact that you're having doubts about it might be something you need to think about, is he someone you can see yourself being with the rest of your life...if not then you might need to think about moving on
2006-07-02 02:51:18 · answer #5 · answered by mtugodfath3r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your gut. You asked this question because you probably are wanting to hear a different answer than you feel.
2006-07-02 03:37:49 · answer #6 · answered by toby ziegler 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is too young cuz just think u hve the rest of your life to live
2006-07-02 02:52:27 · answer #7 · answered by Nikki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No mamasita
2006-07-04 12:08:32 · answer #8 · answered by Peace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2006-07-02 02:56:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋