Hopefully this isn't too weird. But my girlfriend and I have not had sex yet but is it wrong to fantasize about it
2006-07-01 19:20:53 · 31 answers · asked by mtugodfath3r 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe not just fantasies if you know what i mean though
2006-07-01 19:24:28 · update #1
Not wrong at all. Seems pretty natural to me.
2006-07-01 19:22:16 · answer #1 · answered by net_at_nite 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is more to this question and answer than yes or no. How old are you? Do you want to have sex, does she? Are you old enough, is she? If your fantasies are there because you want to and she does not, then you need to explore why she doesn't. If you are waiting for the right time then fantasies can be a way to help stave off the feeling that you want to force something too soon but it can also make it harder to "be good" when you are around her.
In general fantasies are normal, but in the long run there has to be a discussion about it with your girlfriend.
2006-07-01 19:28:43 · answer #2 · answered by Stacey W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope not wrong or weird...
That's actually a really good thing...
Tell her... Not only will it progress your relationship, but it will make her feel wanted and good...
Before my boyfriend and I had sex he told me that he fantasized about it... And I'm not going to lie, I did too...
It makes for open communication and great sex when it comes time!
2006-07-01 19:26:26 · answer #3 · answered by kristijay99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not wrong and I think most girlfriends would prefer that their boyfriends were fantasizing about them rather than another girl.
2006-07-01 19:25:29 · answer #4 · answered by sakura4eternity 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there were only one person about whom you were allowed to fantasize, I think your girlfriend would have to be the one. Fantasizing about OTHER girls, well, that's another story... not necessarily WRONG, but somewhat discouraged by most women.
2006-07-01 19:24:33 · answer #5 · answered by theyuks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The love of my life and I are apart most of the week. I fantasize about her during those times we are not together.
2006-07-01 19:27:42 · answer #6 · answered by AugustMan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been married to my husband for four years and we have sex quite regularly...I fantasize about him all the time, day and night! That's completely natural!
2006-07-01 19:28:02 · answer #7 · answered by n8susieq 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. It's natural for a guy. Guys even fantasize other women when they think they're hot.
2006-07-01 19:23:28 · answer #8 · answered by QQ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not wrong at all in fact its quite healthy and she is probably fantasizing about you too.
2006-07-01 19:23:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol. Umm....no, that is TOTALLY normal....I mean after all, she IS your girlfriend, there is a REASON she is your girlfriend, and it is probably because you were attracted to her....right???? Well, when people have an attraction...they fantasize, its a human thing...
2006-07-01 19:24:12 · answer #10 · answered by lovingarmywife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're absolutely normal and so is the fantasizing.
2006-07-01 19:23:27 · answer #11 · answered by LC 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋