earlier i posted this question + some of u had some questions
i had someone who meant everything to me and i meant everything to him. he has always belived in me and loved me and been there whenever i needed him but we were in a relationship and it was so complicated because my sister loved him to, but he loved me and we were young and niave and he moved away got engaged and moved on but i didnt and the he came back after a year and now he comes to me and tells me he broke of his marriage and hes thinking about leaving again and i feel like a year ago he wanted me to ask him to stay here and be with me and i never and i feel like hes putting me in that same position again but i dont want to be selfish, but i need us to work out because he is all i have left, but i cant trust him, he just broke it off with me and got engaged suddenly to someone he barely even knew and then left he broke my world apart and i want to be angry at him but i cant not even a little because i love him so much
2006-07-01 19:05:51 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
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2006-07-01 19:12:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like this guy doesn't have a clue what he wants, and doesn't seem to realize that he's hurting not just you, but the other girls he's getting engaged to and breaking off with.
He may mean a whole lot to you and you might worship the ground he walks on, but until he treats you better, he's not worth all the trust, faith and love you're giving him.
You don't have to be angry with him - it's ok to feel sad for you and for what could have been. Feel sad too if you want to for him, because he's obviously confused and messing up his life.
We all grieve in different ways - and the ending of a relationship can make us feel the same way that having a loved one die does. So give yourself time to grieve and to come to an understanding within yourself that this relationship just isn't a fair one to you and doesn't do anything for your self-esteem. Don't judge how long it takes you to move on to another relationship by how quick or slow someone else does. You're unique - you're not them and if it takes you longer, so be it.
Be good to you because YOU'RE all you've got. The other people that come into and out of your life along the way are just companions.
And lastly, try smiling. It's hard to be totally sad when you're smiling.
2006-07-01 19:15:33 · answer #2 · answered by kachina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-08-08 23:28:31 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-08-20 10:22:18 · answer #4 · answered by ohrmund 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To use the technical term, this guy is a schmuck. He obviously is unstable, untrustworthy and immature. Avoid him like the plague. I'm sure it is painful to have your heart put through the wringer like this. I am totally serious. This is exactly what I would tell my own daughter if there were a man like this around her. Bad men can very often be attractive and even act sweet. And when the hurt you they will always be very sorry, and promise never to do it again. They will say that it is really YOU that they have always loved. Then when they hurt you again, it will be the same sad story. You are too good for a charmer like this. I am sure it will be impossible to avoid this guy, but really really try. There is nothing but pain for you in a relationship with him.
2006-07-01 19:21:42 · answer #5 · answered by roscoedeadbeat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in a dilema!
You like a guy with a great degree of past and who show a lot of uncertainty and lack of commitment.
Love for this man, who cannot decide what he wants, is pointless and its hurting you.
Let go, start again. There are many, better men out there.
2006-07-01 19:10:18 · answer #6 · answered by Peter H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relaxxxxxxxxxxx!
2006-07-08 08:16:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is ok to love. sounds to me he needs to do some soul searching, when he gets his thoughts straight he may be worth having as a boyfriend, until then be his friend
2006-07-01 19:11:51 · answer #8 · answered by Brandy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get professional help. NOTHING is that bad or worth not living. Think about the other people around you. Don't be selfish!!!!!
2006-07-01 19:11:33 · answer #9 · answered by Nascarjunkie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to join the US Armed Forces. This will get your mind off your problems. You will feel good about yourself, AND you will get to kill people.
2006-07-01 19:10:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋