should i believe him ?

Question

ok this is the story i've been played out by my ex boyfriend really bad so i know all the tricks in the book so anyways my new boyfriend i've been with for 3 years tonight i was at his house we where drinking a lil liqour soo anyways i look at his cell phone and he has a voicemail so once i try and check it he starts going nuts he jumps out the bed and he grabsthe
phone from me soo right there that was a lil werid so anways we here the voive mail and its a song playing saying some stupid crap about oh darling remeber how it use to be and the other part i couldnt really understand it didnt even sound like english so when i tryed and check who the message was from it was a blocked i-d call and he always be getting blocked i-d calls on his cell phone sooo anyways he says it must have been one of his friends at his job prank calling him i think thats f*cking bull crap his 24 and im 18 soo im thinking that he thinks just cause im young im stupid and i dont know how sh*t really is anyways he also has this ex girlfriend from highskool thats turkish and that song on his voicemail didnt really sound like an english song so im thinking it must be his ex that his still messing around with or some new b*tch .should i just believe what he is saying or do you guys think im right for thinking he is cheating .what should i do i really havent caught him ?

Answer 1

Let it go, but be VERY cautious. Be on the lookout for more things like that. Don't jump to any conclusions just yet because if it wasn't his ex-girlfriend and you make a big thing out of this, you might regret it later.

Answer 2

hm
very intresting actually.
see the thing is he is there with u in the realtioship that mean he do care abt u more .
and he may be just being friends with his ex not a big deal and he may be hidding that frm u coz he is afraid that it may create any misunderstandings between u two .
so i think u should wait till u caught him coz in any case he like to be with his ex he would have left u .
as a guy he just enjoying the attention frm her but realy he just want to be with u and he is also liking that u r jealous .
must be having very big smiles on his face if u noticed , he is not going any where.
and an extra if u want him to come to his sences make him feel jealous ask ur male mate to give u a call or so when u with him and praise abt ur male friends in front of him but just be careful dont go over board and respect his feelings after he comes to his sences

Answer 3

some things we may learn in school,some things we learn by living through, by our own experience and our observation. so do you...i believe, you learned a lot from the past! all i want to advice you is to trust your own feeling. and from what I've read, your feeling that he is cheating on you is right!!! they will pretend + saying all the stupid answers just to make you believe him. don't be fooled by those answers. think twice of the answers ,because you may find the answer sounds real at the first place but not after that! make a wise decision...good luck

Answer 4

FORGET ABOUT HIM! If he gets on the defencive side that quicky then theres something up. Trust me..ive gone through things that are quite similar. If you really dont belive me, try to sit him down...calmly as possiable and try to talk with him about the whole thing. But if that doesnt work well then there must be something going on.

Answer 5

Ok I am not going to attempt read the whole story.
He wants sex. Hes a guy. Thats it.
Ok I just read it.
Yes. If not, it is because he cant. You are young, this is the way it goes for a while, dont get very serious

Answer 6

there is no evidence of cheating yet. If a strange phone call makes you mistrust that much, then i say you need to forget about cheating and take care of your paranoia. When he gives you evidence (hard) then do what is necessary. If you nag and bother him when he is not then he might leave you.

Peace

matt

Answer 7

you F U C K I N G ***** never kick a guy in the nuts you mother f u c k e r i hate you so much you have no idea how bad it hurts i hope you are tortured untill one thread of life is still in you and you live in pain the rest of your life you sick b i t c h once again i FU C K I N hate you

Answer 8

Considering your prior questions, I'd say, let her have him....whoever she is.
In addition, it would be much more appealing if you omitted some of the words you've used here. It's simply not an appealing vocabulary for a woman to use. :)

Answer 9

i think you're definitely too young to be seeing someone who's 24 when you're only 18. he's using you because you're young, stupid, and probably giving it up for him!

have a great day, and leave him at the curb with the rest of the garbage...

Answer 10

Well, you never actually did saw it right? Then, think positive (yeaah right!) and don't let this affect your relationship. I mean, after all, Its A relationship, so don't let a prejudicemessed it up. Therefore, if anything bad about this thing happened or such, and you guys break up or sumthing, its purely his loss...

Am i correct???