I'm 22. I've been single for more than a year. I'm starting to find girls ages 14-18 attractive now. Is that wrong? My question is: What ages should I be considering as more appropriate and why? Please defend your answers, I'm a harsh critic.
2006-07-01 18:50:17 · 13 answers · asked by John Doe 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok fu.k the guy with the Jesus response. God him self has no problem with age.For Mary to have been a virgin back then she was about 12 years old. It was normal at that time. So God himself would be on datline! Everyone needs to get over the age thing. Maturity and willingness is what matters.
2006-07-01 19:09:42 · answer #1 · answered by shaggy 1 · 1⤊ 4⤋
What's appropriate is what you feel. there is no right or wrong answer. Some people date others twice their age, or half their age whereas others wouldn't consider dating those more than a 5 year difference. What's really important is what you feel, and then finding a girl who feels the same way. That would be a perfect match.
2006-07-01 18:57:21 · answer #2 · answered by miche 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, legally if your within 3 years of that minor you are usally safe. I wouldn't even consider dating a minor, and I'm 21 years old. I would just wait till a older person comes around. There is some real nice 18 year olds, and don't go too much into the outer beauty because beauty is only skin deep!
2006-07-01 19:16:04 · answer #3 · answered by Lorla 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK I'm sorry to hear that, that is wrong to find girls who are 14-17 attractive. Your older then them u cant have this feelings OK 18-29 OK or older its OK, younger then that no. Well i don't think it's your fault at all but u have to handle your feelings because it's wrong OK. I think u should pray about this for real its just wrong it's a sin there young read the bible or something. Hope this helps^^
2006-07-01 19:03:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Christianity defines flirting, fantasy and lust as a sin. So according to Jesus and the Bible there is no such thing as an appropriate age.
Ask yourself: What Would Jesus Do ?
Jesus never looked at the girls, never fancied women, never had an erection. So according to Christianity, perfection and sainthood can only be achieved if your are devoid of sexuality.
So Jesus would say NO to girls and move on with life. He would not marry, not have kids.
Christians should all stay single and avoid the opposite sex.
2006-07-01 18:55:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not date anyone younger than 18. It would be illegal otherwise.
Besides, both males and females are not fully mature until their 20's. You have nothing in common with a girl younger than 18. You should be (in theory) ending your time in college while they are still in high school. What will you have to talk about? What scholarships to go after? Come on.
Find someone a wee bit older.
2006-07-01 18:59:04 · answer #6 · answered by Zoer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 22 you should be dating girls that are legal in your state to have sexual relations with....because anyone under that age would be considered "Rape" and you will spend time in jail for it.
Lets say...you have sex with a girl 16 years old. She falls in love with you, but you no longer want her, and she says she will tell on you if you break up with her.
Guess what?
You're in sh*t creek without a paddle...and could spend time in jail as an ante in a card game....Got Lube?
2006-07-01 18:56:22 · answer #7 · answered by Dave 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-01 02:00:13 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id say 18 and above for you, but 14 year olds?
2006-07-01 18:55:37 · answer #9 · answered by Nate The Great 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong with dating a youngster, if their aprents know, my boyfriend is 20 and im 14 and we really like eachother and our relationship works out great but let her parents know
2006-07-01 18:56:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋