hi umm im 16 and have yet to kiss a girl. see the problem is is that theres this girl i wanna ask out(and im sure she'll go out with me) but i wanna know if i should be worried about kissing her. we are pretty good friends and we share almost every interest. though i haven't ever been on a 'date' either. i'm a little geeky, but the cool thing is so is she. the thing is shes already had a few bf's and made out with at least one guy for sure. i was wondering if anyone can give me advice on how to ask her out, when, aand especially whether or not i should kiss her after the dates over, and more importantly, how?
2006-07-01 18:42:38 · 13 answers · asked by PureZephyr 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its cool
2006-07-01 18:45:28 · answer #1 · answered by ricardoaz2003 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't worry about it -- that is, don't put pressure on yourself for everything to be perfect. It probably won't be, and either she won't mind (she's probably not perfect either) or you'll have some funny "bad date" stories to tell sometime.
Just ask her out directly. It might help to have a specific activity in mind in advance; then you can ask her to that. If you go on a date, and it goes well, and you feel like kissing her, and she doesn't seem uninterested, then try it, and if she goes along, great. (If not, another funny story.)
In other words, you're still young. Maybe things will work out with this girl, or maybe it will be another girl for you sometime later on. So instead of worrying, which doesn't help because it doesn't change anything, just decide what you want to do, and do it. This might or might not be your time, but things will probably work out for you eventually. So have fun with it.
Good luck!
2006-07-01 18:52:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its good that you have found your friend :)
Maybe its time for that date. Since you share so many interests, pick one and simply ask her to do there with you. Imagine asking her out, practise it.
Don't be embarrased that you have not kissed a girl. You will soon learn. How you 'perform' is not the main issue. Can you form a good relationship with her, that matters more.
Should your kiss after the date? See how you both feel, she will signal by her attitude and nearness if she is ready for a kiss from you.
How to kiss? hold her hands, purse your lips and simply kiss her. Relax, its pleasant and natural.
2006-07-01 18:54:48 · answer #3 · answered by Peter H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aw, just ask her out, have a good time, and when the time is right, lean in and aim for lips - she knows how to kiss, she'll know how to respond. If you're really worried how about saying you haven't had a real girlfriend and are a little nervous. Most girls are cool with that. They like honesty, usually. Especially if she likes you. She may enjoy teaching you things. Really.
2006-07-01 18:47:09 · answer #4 · answered by dreamcatweaver 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-10 03:26:08 · answer #5 · answered by suire 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, when you ask her out be confident not cocky. Be yourself and always be nice, even if she says no. Remember she may change her mind and say yes later. Be a gentleman, when the date is over give her a gentle kiss on the cheek. she will appreciate the gesture and you will have a much better chance a second date. good luck,
Jon
2006-07-01 19:04:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i already had 3 boyfriends and i had my first date and my first kiss with my 3rd boyfriend, i don't think it would be a great idea to kiss her especially on your first date. if i was the girl and if a guy kisses me on our first date,i wouldn't like it. i would think that he's not respecting me and wants something more deeper than that.. but i don't know.. girls don't think the same....
2006-07-01 19:01:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask her out its a hit or miss thing. then about this kiss at the end of the date when you are looking in her eyes and she is looking in yours you will know what has to happen. dont think about it or try to hard just let it happen.
2006-07-01 18:46:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this may sound really mean...but ask out another girl that you kinda liek for like practice i know i wouldn't want to be the other girl but if she never finds out she was used...it's all good
2006-07-01 18:45:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm pretty sure she will be OK with it. so go for it and stop worrying of what might happen or what she might think because once you do it, all your questions will be answered and your worrying will stop.
2006-07-01 18:46:41 · answer #10 · answered by KEE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u must kiss
2006-07-01 18:55:25 · answer #11 · answered by steve123232006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋