2006-07-01 18:41:54 · 15 answers · asked by elaine48@sbcglobal.net 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-07-01 18:47:08 · answer #1 · answered by Billy Bush 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your thoughts are normal. 99.9% of people have had a homosexual thought cross their minds at one time in their life. The difference between being gay and straight is how many times to you fantasize about women. Don't reject your feelings and maybe this is just a phase you might pass. That is assuming that you haven't had thoughts like that prior.
Hope this helps
Matt
2006-07-02 01:47:10 · answer #2 · answered by MastaP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fantasizing is wonderful. You're just developing your own mind after being married for a long time and it's natural. Don't go changing teams unless you're sure that's what you want.
2006-07-02 01:45:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like a natural thing, but I wouldn't recommend pursuing your attraction. Not to snuff your fantasies, but you may not get out of it what you were looking for, and its possible you are having these fantasies from lack of attention you may have encountered in your relationships.
At your age, it might feel tough, but keep the faith for the 'right guy'.
2006-07-02 01:49:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Going Where???
Depends on how recently you've been divorced.
I'm not surprised at the tendency to try something safer...or what you might think as being safer with a woman. Especially if the breakup was very painful.
You know the old saying..." only a woman knows how to please another woman"
2006-07-02 01:45:40 · answer #5 · answered by werk2much2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you going what?
Gay? Bi sexual?
Be open to possibilities. You are still young, if you can find a female to have some fun with, then go for it.
What you do in privacy is your business. I don't care if you are bi, most people don't and some guys even think it's GREAT!
What ever makes you happy....
2006-07-02 01:45:55 · answer #6 · answered by Fuzzy Wuzzy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if your not totally against it and you think you may be connecting with someone. Go for it open you horizans lady, have fun. It may turn out that you just really need some.
2006-07-02 01:45:51 · answer #7 · answered by bratttykat_2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people realize "Hey, I didn't have much luck with a man..." so they might try a woman. Besides, it's the year 2006 now, it seems like everyone is trying it! (except me .. yet lol)
2006-07-02 01:45:33 · answer #8 · answered by natalie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your only going if you go. Only you can answer that question. Fantasizing is one thing, doing it is another !!! You need your convidence back so get your butt out there and meet new people.....
Good luck
2006-07-02 01:46:38 · answer #9 · answered by quiet times 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're probably in good company and society has softened it's view on the subject matter. So what you do in private is really your own business. And what you do with another person in private is also your own business.
2006-07-02 01:45:10 · answer #10 · answered by nothing 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Going what????? i think it is normal......try not to think of females...think of something else every time your mind starts on females...maybe that'll help...
2006-07-02 01:45:29 · answer #11 · answered by sweet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋