I'll make it short........how do you get over a heart break?!?!
2006-07-01 18:40:57 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Argh......i cant keep my distance though i say im not gonna call but then i do i just cant stop talkin to him.......what do i do?!?!
2006-07-01 19:23:41 · update #1
Just move on and find someone better!:)
2006-07-01 18:41:47 · answer #1 · answered by ilessthanthreeyou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either find a new love, which sometimes backfires, or realize that you are okay alone. It may take a long time to get over. You need closure. What it takes to get closure can vary. Sometimes them being with someone else can do it, other times you being with someone else can do it, or even a conversation with the person where you find out what went wrong and truly know that it is in fact over. It all depends. Just try to stay busy and don't listen to too many love songs or watch romantic movies, that just makes it worse and causes a lot of waterworks.
2006-07-01 18:43:44 · answer #2 · answered by Skitz628 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am the Queen :-)
Unfortunately...
You just have to force yourself to realize that life does go on. No matter how much you feel the ache in your heart, the sickness in your stomach, and the total feeling of helplessness, it does all fade.
You have got to put your brain in control for a while instead of your heart.
It does get easier...
I wish you the best :-)
2006-07-01 18:44:32 · answer #3 · answered by rvogelpohl2001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never do....you scar, learn and will always keep him in your heart somewhere. Take the you had time together and divide by 4. Wait that long at least to re-hookup to something better...better because now you know better
wOrd
2006-07-01 18:47:13 · answer #4 · answered by Mad Max 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do stuff you love to do, hang out with friends, bare your soul in a diary, start a blog, pour your guts out to your firends, take a new course, take a long bubble bath, do things that make your heart soar. And remember, if it didn't work out, you're probably better off for it.
2006-07-01 18:43:56 · answer #5 · answered by dreamcatweaver 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time, JustDreams, and falling in love with someone new. You will still remember him fondly, but you'll be over him. Especially if the new guy is twice as good at caring for your heart.
2006-07-01 18:44:54 · answer #6 · answered by Flame 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time, and good Techno. is the only cure because the other music will remind you of the person that you are trying to get over that stuff is tuff it sucks it hurts. or you could go out with some friends. get out of your skin and mind/
2006-07-01 18:45:11 · answer #7 · answered by ( ((G-Force)) ) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang with the girls, vent about your heart break, eat a gallon of ice cream, and check out a cutie you may have seen around.
2006-07-01 18:43:25 · answer #8 · answered by bratttykat_2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to first mourn...
Grab some garbage food, take a bath and lot's of sleep...
When your done feeling sorry for yourself, then get out there...
Go out, be seen and have fun...
Lean on your friends for support...
Do things that you wouldn't have had time for when you were with your boyfriend....
And when you are ready start looking again....
Or who knows, he may find you!
Good luck :)
2006-07-01 18:44:16 · answer #9 · answered by kristijay99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time heals all wounds...seriously! u have to go thru the phases til u are emotionally ready to close the chapter...the pain u feel is what will help u grow and understand life...and love. best advice, keep busy with other things, other friends, other new and happy moments (no new relationships cause ull feel 2X worst)...and when ur heart is ready to really really really let go, u will.
2006-07-01 18:44:02 · answer #10 · answered by mtlfearie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the first thing i can think of is to travel, relax, and have fun with my friends... i'll make myself busy with my work or other stuff.. its not easy to heal a broken heart.. so expect that it will last for weeks or months.. just take it easy and have fun.. for more love tips and advises you may also visit http://pannga.com .. goodluck!!!!
2006-07-01 18:45:59 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋