2006-07-01 18:37:09 · 11 answers · asked by angel_cook123 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i thnk you should go with him if you really love him and help him out to but talk to him about his x and see
2006-07-01 18:38:48 · answer #1 · answered by Angel c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't know what to do about it?
Sorry honey, the son was there first. Your boyfriends first responsibility is to his child until this child reaches adult hood.
You have choices. You can become a loving step mother or you can be a total ***** about it all, and put unnecessary pressure on the man you love. Or you could walk away. Just remember not to hurt this little boy in your process. It's not his fault his parents aren't together and your fears about BF MAYBE loving his ex has nothing to do with the son.
Good luck.
2006-07-01 18:42:05 · answer #2 · answered by Fuzzy Wuzzy 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If your boyfriend has a son, chances are he will always always be in touch with his ex. Becuase of this, they will always have that common bond between them and probably do love each other deep inside, even though they are not meant to be together. That doesn't mean he can't move on with his life and start a new and meaningful relationship with you. People who date people with children, need to accept that they will always most likely have some kind of close relationship with their ex's. It doesn't mean they are still in love with them. it just means they love their children.
2006-07-01 18:42:57 · answer #3 · answered by miche 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well most men have kids with a ex its the way of the world and at some point he must of loved her but I will say this he might still have a part of love for her but its not the kind of in love thing. Thats why she is his ex and you are with him. I know there are ton of different kinds of love. You love you favorite food, dog, book , your kids your man your parents. etc.
2006-07-01 18:46:13 · answer #4 · answered by Crystal D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should talk to him about your feelings, in a way he will always have feelings for his ex cause they share something special together his son, but if you really love him you want let that come between you. im a mother myself and still have feelings for my 3 year olds father and we broke up over 3 years ago, i have been seeing someone thats got kids from previous reationships but that doesnt change how i feel for him i no that he still has feelings for his ex but where getting past that and moving on.
2006-07-08 18:09:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't giving us any details...Just because he has a kid doesn't mean he still loves his ex but that is why I try not to get involved with men who have kids...Too much drama and more than likely, they can always go back and sleep with their baby momma.
2006-07-01 18:41:20 · answer #6 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF he still loves his ex, there's not much room for you. Do you want to get your heart broken? If you only think he does, don't play the 'maybe' game. Ask him. You'll know what to do when the time comes.
2006-07-01 18:40:42 · answer #7 · answered by thezookeeper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U sound abit insecure about this..i guess if you really love him,tell him how much you care for him and his son..Communication is important and since u have doubts that he might love his ex...tell him bout it and see what he reacts bout it..
2006-07-01 18:41:01 · answer #8 · answered by aleeya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust your instincts. If your gut is warning you that something just doesn't seem right, it probably isn't.
2006-07-01 18:40:04 · answer #9 · answered by dreamcatweaver 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know he's still in love with his ex? More details please.
2006-07-01 18:47:35 · answer #10 · answered by tantalizin1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋