Ok... He usually calls one night...I call next...then him. We switch off. One night he didn't call. The next night, I didn't call him because I was at church until 10 PM. And I can't call him after 10. I called him yesterday and he didnt say anything. I just listened to his conversation with his friend for an hour. He said he would call me tonight and he didn't. However, lately, when I see him, he acts like everything is normal. I don't get it. What do I do?
2006-07-01 18:33:48 · 16 answers · asked by nobodyinparticular...lol 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should just ask him directly if there's any particular reason he didn't call like normal. There may be a very good reason; there may not be any big reason at all. Either way, things could still be fine in his mind. Don't jump to negative conclusions yet-- just talk to him about it (and be curious, not accusing.)
2006-07-01 18:37:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
apparently something else is occupying his mind, NOTE i did not say "someone else". I have been in a simular situation. Be strong but i know you can do this...don't call him for a few days, wait he will call you first ok. Sometimes when we love someone we want to be intouch always but mens brains funtion differntly than a womans. They don't need that constant contact and sometimes they feel like they are being "wrapped" and can't let there buds see that even if they are LOL. So if everything else is ok, just put off calling him but be the same to him in person. Don't worry he will start to wonder after a few days and he will get back into calling you. His friends are probley giving him a hard time and he is just trying to show them that he is not "whipped". Man friends can be so tough on each other
2006-07-01 18:43:20 · answer #2 · answered by Mendedarrow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop reading too much into the patterns of calling. That can make you crazy. Chances are, he has no idea that you guys are alternating nights in initiating your calls with each other. Just enjoy his company and your conversations when you do talk. Dating doesnt' mean you drop everything else in your life -- for example when you went to church until 10pm he might have wondered why you didn't call. Or perhaps he didn't even notice that you didn't call. Regardless, stop concentrating on the little things and enjoy the time you have with him when you do talk and see each other.
2006-07-01 18:39:38 · answer #3 · answered by miche 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys have no concept of when there is a problem. Live your life & stop waiting around for him to call you and pay attention 2 you. If he wants you he knows where to find you. Go see your friends - they probably miss you.
2006-07-01 18:37:43 · answer #4 · answered by catsup 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same thing happened to me a few nights ago.
My suggestion is to make mention that it bothered you that he gave most of his attention to his friend while you were with him. Request that he balances his interactions with other people and you much better.
2006-07-01 18:40:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you won't be able to eliminate it some how, that's someones property in case you comprehend who this buddy is it belongs to why do not you ask them to come back and get it or take it round to there homestead possibly your b/f has lent his buddy some money and is preserving the lap correct as safe practices
2016-10-14 01:21:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's in church till 10 PM...
I'm sorry but I think he's found more then just Jesus!
2006-07-01 18:36:39 · answer #7 · answered by werk2much2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
play it out, I had this happen to me b4, sometimes he could be busy, or just ask him, that' what I did with my bf, now he better make sure he calls me if he don't want to hear my mouth the next day.
2006-07-01 18:37:13 · answer #8 · answered by Honey83 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit playing head games.
2006-07-01 18:36:31 · answer #9 · answered by thezookeeper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How bout directly say "you're acting strange it seems to me" and see what he has to say for himself,,,watch HOW he says it more that what he says. You'll know without games wassup.
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2006-07-01 18:42:50 · answer #10 · answered by Mad Max 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋