What is the best way to apoligize for saying something that made the girl you love really mad at you???

Question

she is really mad and never wants to talk to me again and i have tryed so hard but i cant do much about it i love her and i understand her being upset but im only human i make mistakes to i just want to say something to help my cause

Answer 1

Just tell her the things you said here. Say you are sorry a thousand times and a thousand times more. Flowers may or may not work. Lots of oral sex works too, but if she isn't talk to you then I guess that's out of the question.

Answer 2

well you can just go to her house when you know that she will be there and sit and talk to her, tell her she has every reason to be mad at you , and for her to tell you exactly how she feels to just let it out on you and you will understand but that you dont want those feelings bottled up in her. then tell her after she does that, how much you love her , and what is it in her mind that you can do to make up for what you did and that you wont ever do it again. tell her that you know it might take some time for her to trust you again but that you are willing to do whatever it takes to win her heart back because she has your heart and that is where you want your heart to be is with her, but that you know in order for it to work between you two it is a two way street that you have to have her heart too. tell her that you cant stand to live another day without her , that imagining yourself without her leaves you with an empty life, that it is only full of life when she is with you. be original dont steel any crummy lines be real with her. tell her that if you were not so sure that you would never hurt her again you would not be here right now asking for her forgiveness. i realy do wish you luck. good luck.

Answer 3

I think this is a good opportunity to practice heartfelt communications with someone you really care about. I would hope that you'd ask to sit down with her in a private place...somewhere where you can talk openly and without worry that someone is going to interrupt your train of thought, then take time to not only apologize but explain a little more about how you made the error in judgment. Because things like this will happen again. She'll do it too and the both of you need to feel free to open up with each other.

Answer 4

Well, not knowing what you did, all I can do is a stab in the dark here. Sit down and think about how you truly feel about this person. Then, take a piece of paper out and write (physically write) her a letter explaining how you feel about her, and how you regret that what you did hurt her, it wasn't your intention. And since it obviously is something she can't abide, then swear never to do that again.

Now - the hard part. What if you don't disagree with what you did, you just disagree with her interpretation of that? You may have to call it quits.

Answer 5

Try to get her alone and beg forgiveness on your knees with a boquet in your outstretched hand. After all you did the mistake and you ought to pay for it. Don't give up and don't do the same mistake again. Tell her so. Good Luck.

Answer 6

Give her a couple of days to cool off...Then ask her to give you another chance to say how much sorry you are. Show to her that you are really sincere with what's your saying. Accept the fact that you indeed made a mistake...then ask for forgiveness and a second chance to prove your worth....Goodluck!!!!

Answer 7

Show up with a dozen roses, and tell her you cannot express how sorry you are.
Promise her you would never offend her in that manner again.
If she does not let up, she may just need some time to realize she is being silly.
If she realizes how special you are, it will all work out.
If she doesn't, then it is truly her loss :-)

Answer 8

Sounds like you hit a bad nerve with this girl and she may never forgive you. I'd give it time and approach her in a couple days when she's calm down. Doing it now may only inflame the problem. Back off.

Good luck !!!

Answer 9

if she never wants to talk to you again, wear a Tee that says: "IM SORRY" the next time you see her. i think that this would work...to show her how desperate u really are in making up with her. i personally hardly forgive a guy...but if i see him go as desperate as that...i would definitely change my mind. more importantly, if u are truly sorry from the bottom of your heart and u have good intentions and u want to be forgiven...trust that she would forgive u sometime.

Answer 10

If you love her as you say just keep trying! Give her some roses or a box of chocalates or both!!! Make her feel that you are sorry!! And be honest and listen to her!! And don't try do make excuses!! Jsut tell her that you are sorry!!