There's this guy and at first he was really sweet but the physical thing is not there at all! I'm just so bored with the whole thing. I tried breaking up with him once and he literally begged me to stay. He's nice and I don't wanna break his heart but what can I do?
2006-07-01 18:30:44 · 15 answers · asked by SweetNsour 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him it's not working out for you and this time don't be a sucker and take him back. That's all you can do.
2006-07-01 18:32:23 · answer #1 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him the truth, and don't let him change your mind. It will hurt his feelings, but that's not your fault, and it won't do either of you any good to stay in a relationship that you don't want. Look at it this way: the sooner you break up, the sooner he can start getting over you and start looking for a relationship that works.
You don't have to go out of your way to be cruel to him, but if you want to end the relationship, it really is best to end it as soon as you can. Sorry it didn't work out.
2006-07-01 18:38:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Truly, this is one of the hardest things to do for people that are considerate of others, but, alas, it does come up. All you can do is tell him that you are in a different place than him and right now, a relationship is not what you can handle. That you have enjoyed his company, but you have to sort your own life out and you need your space to do that. And that is that. Cut it off completely. If he calls, don't answer, if he leaves messages, erase them. Worst thing you can do is still "be there", it sends the message "she still cares and I can get her back." And whatever you do, don't tell him "it's not you, it's me" that is the coldest, oldest excuse, even if it is true. Best of luck.
2006-07-01 18:35:47 · answer #3 · answered by sofballinchic12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You MUST be direct. You owe it to him. None of this, "it's not you, it's me" stuff. It hurts more at the time, but less than if you string him along or give him false hope. Just say something like,
"You're a great guy, but our relationship just isn't working for me anymore. I'm sorry, but I don't want to keep going out with you."
2006-07-01 18:35:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest and tell him how you feel. He might hurt for a while but he deservies the right to find someone who will be happy with him. Relationships are hard and sweet don't keep you happy in bed.
2006-07-01 18:34:25 · answer #5 · answered by Crystal D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's it gonna be you being miserable or him needing to get over you. Remember this there is nobody more important than you and peice if mind. Treat it like a bandaid rip it right off
2006-07-01 18:35:12 · answer #6 · answered by mewhoelse 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you like someone else. There's no point in hanging on to something that you know won't last. My ex asked me to stay too but if you're just not feeling it, you shouldn't lead him on.
2006-07-01 18:36:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest and dont beat around the bush just tell him. we dont like it when girls try to make it all nice. and for the love of everything holy please dont say we can still be friends lol.
2006-07-01 18:34:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
walk up to his face. move your lips into say the words 'i am breaking up with you' and then walk on.
2006-07-01 18:32:59 · answer #9 · answered by E3_E3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are gonna wish you kept him around when you run into a disrespectful man who beats you, think about it.
2006-07-01 18:33:37 · answer #10 · answered by Honey83 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋