im feeling kinda lonely again. sometimes, i used to take mouthful bites of life, but since i've left my country, i'm not the same. i always feel lonely, and the thing is that i don't have any real friend here. i try to forget about my country my friends and family, sometimes, so that i can move on, but when people ask me about how i feel here, if i like it, ( like just then a woman in my neighbourhood popped out that question) i just can't help it, and start to cry, and feel lonely again. i can't go back, i'm too young to go in my country all by myself, and my parents decided to leave there cause it was getting too dangerous, for anybody. what make me feel even worse is to see my father and brothers getting used to here so perfectly, when im struggling to get one friend. did anyone had the same situation as i am going through, and how did you get out of it. i feel like im stucked (plz no junk message, im not in the mood)
2006-07-01 18:25:41 · 6 answers · asked by orel 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
I have no idea of where you are at, your age, your gender, or your nationality, but if you ever need to talk, know that you have plenty of people who would be more than happy to be your friend, at least online.
I'm well versed in a variety of subjects, am good at listening as well as talking, and consider myself at least well educated and somewhat wise (well, ok, maybe partially wise) and although I may not sound like it here, I'm pretty easy going and fun to talk to.
No one should ever be lonely or feel that they are lonely, that is a dark path that is best left unwalked...ever.
Again, not knowing your specifics, I can tell you that sometimes getting a hobby, especially one that involves others, helps to find friends. This really helps because you would be surrounding yourself with people who share the same interests, so you immediately overcome one of the simple stumbling blocks to meeting and befriending people - interests.
I hope that this helps.
Buddhadan
2006-07-01 18:32:36 · answer #1 · answered by buddhadan 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had something like your situation, but I only moved cross country. My family however, moved to Japan. I also feel lonely and lost. It's like a new world most people here don't speak my language. I think I know how you feel. Hold your chin up and smile they'll never figure out what you are up to.
2006-07-01 18:34:30 · answer #2 · answered by Teacher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have not experienced moving to another country, but have moved to other states without friends or family. I have done this twice to follow employment. It takes some getting used to, but I have found that in order to have friends you have to be friendly. Be someone you would want as a friend. Others will gravitate towards you and you will soon forget your loneliness
2006-07-01 18:32:38 · answer #3 · answered by solpredator 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't forget who you are or where you came from if it;s that special to you. But if you're stuck living somewhere right now, open your mind and enjoy it. I bet you'll like it as much as the rest of your family. Don't keep thinking its the end of the world. You're obviously young, you'll have a lot more going on when you realize this wasn't that bad. Good luck!
2006-07-01 18:32:07 · answer #4 · answered by keekle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to join the US Armed Forces. This will get your mind off your problems. You will feel good about yourself, AND you will get to kill people.
2006-07-01 18:28:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya u can e mail me if u ever need my advise
2006-07-01 18:34:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋