2006-07-01 18:25:39 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if he thinks that, that is the only way to prove it, then you need to dump him.
2006-07-01 18:28:20 · answer #1 · answered by Honey83 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well first off if he loves you he would need you to prove to him through sex that you love him. And besides if you do have sex with him and you do get pregnant or decide you need to go further afterward will he love you enough to stick around. And are you old enough to even be thinking about serious relationships and babies that may result from sex. but hey if you guys are too horny to think wear protection and don't be surprised of any results that may hurt afterward
2006-07-02 01:33:00 · answer #2 · answered by bratttykat_2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you feel you have to PROVE your love? Doesn't he know you care about him? If he is pressuring you to prove your love by having sex, he is using you. Get a new boyfriend!
2006-07-02 01:34:49 · answer #3 · answered by moonmother2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since there's more to love than just sex, you could do something else that's important to him, to show him that you love him (love is a plan that is carried out, on purpose, to do something good for somebody, for the reason of showing them that you care about them)... after that, if he insists on you having sex with him, I'd say HE doesn't love/care about YOU.
2006-07-02 01:36:32 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be your loving self. If he doesn't see it and wants to have sex, and won't be with you because you don't want to have sex, then he isn't worth it. Move on! I'm so glad that there are other girls out here waiting, I thought I was the only one!
2006-07-02 01:28:32 · answer #5 · answered by THe T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what makes you think that to prove that u love him, you have to have sex with him? if this is how he wants to you prove your love, he's definitly a jerk. you can prove to him by shower him with care,love,attention...etc. sex is secondary in the relationship. if he truly loves you, he should respect you when you tell him that you are not ready for sex or whatever. that does not mean you dont love him
2006-07-02 01:31:22 · answer #6 · answered by estie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think u should sincerely tell him what u feel and make sure that he understands that u love him. u could show that u care, like having concern about his life and being there for him, and doing romantic thougtful stuff...if he truly loves u then he would understand and he'll be happy just by the thought that u have communicated your feelings to him
2006-07-02 01:32:22 · answer #7 · answered by kelly99ca 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's been telling you that having sex with him will prove that you love him, it's time for you to put it back on him. Tell him that if he truly cares for you, he'll wait until you are ready. If he leaves, it's his loss, not yours; he wasn't with you for love, just sex.
2006-07-02 01:33:04 · answer #8 · answered by webfly2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, I'm a guy, but I'm in touch with my feminin side. Just tell him that you love him every day, and instead of sex, just cuddle.
2006-07-02 01:29:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just show him the sex is not the proof of your love and when he insists on sex, maybe he see who as an sex object not a person whom he loved and respect.
2006-07-02 01:29:24 · answer #10 · answered by lepactodeloupes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love him you shouldn't have to prove it because he should be able to tell by the look in your eyes or the touch of your hand he should be able to feel it and see
2006-07-02 01:29:38 · answer #11 · answered by gone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋