what if being with the one you love compromises your freedom and you feel you need as much freedom as you can have?
2006-07-01 18:22:17 · 19 answers · asked by katrina_ponti 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
KEE: oh, how I would love to be some kind of a rebel like you, but.. my man is different.. I would not be able to get away with it.. in one piece.. I'll just be blown to pieces.
2006-07-01 18:45:40 · update #1
Ideally, freedom and love are not mutually exclusive. Of course, in a world of immature, needy, insecure people, love and freedom tend not to co-exist much. But, if you find the right guy, someone who loves you but doesn't need to own you, then you can have both. What's that line from the Cars song? "It doesn't matter where you've been....as long as it was deep"---YEAH.
Off to itunes.....
2006-07-01 18:52:20 · answer #1 · answered by John C 2 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Check yourself. Why are you in love with this person? True love should not be at the cost of freedom. However, is your freedom only compromised temporarily or is this going to be a recurring part of this relationship. Be realistic and take responsibility.
2006-07-02 01:27:53 · answer #2 · answered by behind_blue_eyes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl if that is u in the pic i dont think u r in love but in like!!! i know u have heard the compliments all ur life so im not going to repeat them ! basically dig deep downside in ur self and ask do i really want or am ready for a relationship ? stare at the mirror and ask yourself that question! More than likely u will say no..ur attractive ,of age , flattered everyday, your just not ready within yourself for a total commitment because if you were you would not be asking this question....well good luck and no matter what u do dont i repeat dont cheat on your boyfriend to no degree at all cause hes not the one confused and he doesnt deserve to be hurt or misleaded...ok ....good luck.....
2006-07-02 01:32:39 · answer #3 · answered by primet21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then freedom to explore what you want in life is more important than the love you feel. If love needs to be compromised, then the love you feel is less of a priority than something else in life (ie. your freedom).
2006-07-02 01:36:30 · answer #4 · answered by miche 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was younger, I would not let anything or anyone compromise my freedom. If the one I love can let me just be myself and not try to change or own me I'm alright.
2006-07-02 01:28:28 · answer #5 · answered by toughguy2 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump them and be free. Best do it now and get it over with. In time you will learn that you can express and have freedom with another. They won't hold you back. They will just tag along on the journey.
2006-07-02 01:27:32 · answer #6 · answered by Texas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well dear,you cant have it both ways.if you love him then you need to spend some time with him or he will start thinking you dont care for him and you care for other stuff instead of him,iam a man and men dont like it for a woman to brush them away so put your freedom on hold sometimes and spend some times with him so he will at least think you still love him.
2006-07-02 01:32:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should justify that you have a big heart that is capable of many loves, without having heart failure. Or better yet, in the true spirit of Martin Luther King, "free, free at last!"
2006-07-02 02:19:25 · answer #8 · answered by jim-dandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well then you might Love him oh her ,BUT your not in love. When you start weighing love to your freedom, It just might be time to let it go.If you don't now ur goin to be miserable
2006-07-02 01:30:11 · answer #9 · answered by mewhoelse 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then your not ready to be totally in love....get all your freedom out of you before you pursuit a relationship
2006-07-02 01:27:37 · answer #10 · answered by xhalted1ne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋