Well...I'm going out with a guy...we'll call him bob and my BEST guy friend just told me he loved me...we'll call him george. So, I secreatly liked george and I kinda' accidently told george so. And now I don't know what to do. George wants me to go out with him...and I guess I kinda want to..but, what about Bob...I mean, He would be heart broken...and I still love bob...but...I mean, I like George also...so, what on this earth do I do??? Either way someone will get their heart squashed...should I just not go out with either of them? But...then...well, I mean, George really has his hopes up on me fallin' for him...so, I think I'll call Bob and find out if he really loves me...make sure if he has no doubts...and if he dosn't...I guess I should stick with him....and if bob has doughts...I guess I'll go with george...does anyone have any tips for a poor girl in dier need of help??? Anything will be appreciated...Thanks SOOO much....I have no idea what to do!
2006-07-01 18:18:07 · 9 answers · asked by Kaitlynn J 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"George" has to be patient. Wait it out.
2006-07-01 18:22:24 · answer #1 · answered by Honey83 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The greatest relationships are based on strong friendships first, so you owe it to yourself and George to give it a try. There might be something there that would be much better than what you have with Bob. It's never easy choosing, but if you don't try it out with George, you'll always be left wondering. Bob will get over it.
2006-07-01 18:23:58 · answer #2 · answered by Steve H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... if you have been waiting for George... go for him... sure you love Bob, but are you in love with Bob? If you have to question who you want to be with... you really don't love either one of them. Love is an unconditionaly feeling, therefore, if you loved George, you would break-up with Bob to be with him. Sure Bob will be heartbroken... but if he loves you, then he will want you to be happy.
2006-07-01 18:23:36 · answer #3 · answered by MB's Gal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound too young to have to be committed to anybody. Just date them both. You're not married, and be honest about it. Don't sleep with them, just have fun and enjoy it. One day you'll be married; but for now, you should be dating different people and not getting too serious and just working on your future and developing your interests and talents. When you're ready to get married, you'll KNOW without a doubt. You won't have to wonder.
Just tell them both that you like them both, you're not ready to settle down with either of them. Whichever one of them REALLY cares about YOU will be satisfied with that and not try to coerce you or guilt you into anything more. If one of them doesn't really care about you, he will either pout, guilt trip you or say he can't see you anymore. Then the decision is made for you.
Good luck!
2006-07-01 18:27:10 · answer #4 · answered by Mistress T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u like george then thinking about dumping bob for him that means you really dont love bob as much as you think.. if that is the case you should dump him and go for george.. well gl
2006-07-01 18:24:59 · answer #5 · answered by avatar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, how about listening to your heart. Does either of these guys, when you imagine them, or when you see them, make your heart skip a beat? Is either one of them somebody you just can't get out of your head? Does either one make you feel like the entire universe just smiled at you if they talk to you and pay attention to you? Do you dream of either of them?
You're young. Follow your heart. If you can't decide what that is, be a friend.
2006-07-01 18:24:23 · answer #6 · answered by dreamcatweaver 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've seen this happen...to my two best guy friends at the time...it CRUSHES them!
Your best bet would be to remain friends with both...if not, than even the man you make happy will feel guilty later on...believe me.
2006-07-01 18:22:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
all i can say is don't be greedy. it gets so many people in trouble and sometimes you end up with no one because "you don't know who you want" you know who you want but you don't want to step on anyone's toes. unfortunately we don't live in a world where EVERYONE is nice to EVERYONE. so you may just have to be real with the one you don't really like and go with your heart. it's best for all.....just be careful darlin' ;o)
2006-07-01 18:24:04 · answer #8 · answered by musikluver83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
quit making dating so difficult..choose one and go one
2006-07-01 18:21:46 · answer #9 · answered by xhalted1ne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋